Prayer for my discernment to marriage

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I need your prayers. I have been in a relationship for some time now (several years) and I need your help in prayer for the discernment of the next step. I love this girl, but I have fears. Please help.
 
Phil, I will pray for you the best I can.
I ask Jesus to help you sort out whether any reservations you have are justified. If you are just nervous about such a big life-commitment, I ask God to give you all the graces you need for a happy, faithful marriage. If you are concerned about anything to do with the nature or whatever of your girlfriend I ask Jesus to help you honestly discern whether it is wise and workable for you to marry her. Fears can be good warnings, just as pain can be a warning to withdraw one’s hand form a heat source…so I ask You, Jesus, to help Phil sort out whether his fears are warnings, or natural nervousness.

Jesus please give Your attention and love and grace to Phil’s question and the issues in his life and nature and beliefs, and in the life and nature beliefs of the girl he loves.

Thank You, Jesus
 
From the Liturgy of the Hours for Friday, January 9:

Our Father, who art in Heaven,
hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come,
thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

O God, you give light to all nations: give your people the joy of everlasting peace.
You illuminated the minds of our forefathers with your light:
may our hearts be filled with it also.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
God for ever and ever.
Amen.
 
Praying for you both.

Our Father, who art in Heaven,
hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come,
thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Amen

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus
Holy Mary, Mother of God
pray for us sinners now
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
Praying that God will guild you in your decisions and future…
 
O glorious St Raphael, Patron and Lover o the Young, I call upon thee and plead with thee for thy help. In all confidence Phil opens his heart to thee, to beg thy guidance and assistance in the important task of planning his future. Obtain for him, through thy intercession the light of God’s grace, so that he may decide wisely concerning the person who is to be his partner through life. O Angel of Happy Meetings, lead Phil by the hand to find each other. May all their movements be guided by thy light and transfigured by thy joy. As thou didst lead the young Tobias to Sara and opened up for him a new life of happiness with her in holy marriage, lead Phil to such a one whom in thine angelic wisdom thou dost judge best suited to be united with Phil in marriage.

St. Raphael, loving Patron of those seeking a marriage partner, help him in this supreme decision of his life. Find for him as a helpmate in life that person whose character will reflect the traits of Jesus and Mary. May she be upright, loyal, pure, sincere and noble, so that with united efforts and with chaste and unselfish love, they both may strive to perfect ourselves in soul and body as well as the children it may please God to entrust to their care.
St. Raphael, Angel of chaste coutship, bless their friendship and their love, that sin may have no part in it. May their mutual love bind them so closely that their future home may ever be most like the home of the Holy Family of Nazareth. Offer thy prayers to God for both of them and obtain the blessing of God upon their marriage, as thou wert the hearld of blessing for the marriage of Tobias and Sara.

St. Raphael, Friend of the Young, to thy special care Phil entrusts the decision he is to make as to his future wife. Direct him to the person with hom he can best cooperate in doing God’s Holy Will, with whom he can lie in peace, love and harmony in this life and attain to eternal joy in the next. Amen.
 
O glorious St Raphael, Patron and Lover o the Young, I call upon thee and plead with thee for thy help. In all confidence Phil opens his heart to thee, to beg thy guidance and assistance in the important task of planning his future. Obtain for him, through thy intercession the light of God’s grace, so that he may decide wisely concerning the person who is to be his partner through life. O Angel of Happy Meetings, lead Phil by the hand to find each other. May all their movements be guided by thy light and transfigured by thy joy. As thou didst lead the young Tobias to Sara and opened up for him a new life of happiness with her in holy marriage, lead Phil to such a one whom in thine angelic wisdom thou dost judge best suited to be united with Phil in marriage.

St. Raphael, loving Patron of those seeking a marriage partner, help him in this supreme decision of his life. Find for him as a helpmate in life that person whose character will reflect the traits of Jesus and Mary. May she be upright, loyal, pure, sincere and noble, so that with united efforts and with chaste and unselfish love, they both may strive to perfect ourselves in soul and body as well as the children it may please God to entrust to their care.
St. Raphael, Angel of chaste coutship, bless their friendship and their love, that sin may have no part in it. May their mutual love bind them so closely that their future home may ever be most like the home of the Holy Family of Nazareth. Offer thy prayers to God for both of them and obtain the blessing of God upon their marriage, as thou wert the hearld of blessing for the marriage of Tobias and Sara.

St. Raphael, Friend of the Young, to thy special care Phil entrusts the decision he is to make as to his future wife. Direct him to the person with hom he can best cooperate in doing God’s Holy Will, with whom he can lie in peace, love and harmony in this life and attain to eternal joy in the next. Amen.
Wow, that is so very beautiful. Thank for for this special prayer. Indeed, thanks to everyone who is praying for me. This is very beautifully written and is such a great prayer. Thank you so very much!
 
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