Prayers for overcoming masturbation

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I am 19 years old and have struggled with this sin for over a year. I have made some progress though. I used to masturbate 3-4 times a week, look at porn, and lust while doing it. Now, I masturbate about 1 time a week, I don’t look at porn anymore, and I don’t lust as often. I hope I get to where I don’t sin at all.

So, I was wondering, can you recommend any prayers that will help me overcome these sins?

-Thank you
 
Loving God, help me to have purity of heart, to percieve women as whole human beings, not just for their bodies. Grant me the strength to stay free from these temptations of pleasure for pleasures sake and help me to do penance and change my heart.
 
Dearest Jesus, I know that every perfect gift, and above all others that of chastity, depends upon the most powerful assistance of thy providence, and that without thee a creature can do nothing.
Therefore, I pray thee to defend, with thy grace, chastity and purity in my soul as well as in my body, and if I ever receive any impression that would stain my chastity or purity, do thou, who are the supreme lord of all my powers, take if from me, that I may with an immaculate heart advance in thy love and service, offering myself chaste all the days of my life on the most pure altar of thy divinity. Amen.

-St. Thomas Aquinas

They sent me that from Chastity.com, which is a good resource for purity issues. Observe the sacraments and especially confess all you mortal sins to a priest. You might consider confessing to a priest that you don’t see in mass or around, for something like this.Then in time God’s grace will give you what your soul seeks, dignity and relief. Amen. You can do it.
 
Oh devout virgin Saint Gemma, you once prayed: “To come to heaven requires purity of heart: give it to me, my Jesus; Yes, I so desire purity of heart!” And then, turning also to the Blessed Virgin Mary for Her heavenly help you once said: “Blessed Mother, never allow me to lose holy purity. Place me under your mantle, guard this treasure for me, and I shall become more pleasing to Jesus.”

We turn to you then, Oh holy Gemma, and we make your prayers to Jesus and Mary our own, calling upon your heavenly assistance for the grace of holy purity. Assist us then, dear Gemma, in obtaining this precious jewel from Jesus, with the help of our beloved Mother Mary. Be our heavenly friend and patroness, and lead us ever closer into the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the infinite source of purity. We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord. AMEN.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death
Amen.

St. Jude, pray for him!
 
I cannot offer a great deal of advice except that which helped me.

I developed a “visual prayer”…After all, if we can “visualize” toward lust - why not “visualize” away from it…
So I prayed, “Father, take me to the foot of the cross”, and then began thinking, visualizing myself there. Gazing on the scene of the one who died for my sins.
Hot, dry, dusty day.
The foot of the cross buried in the ground.
The wood of the cross stained black from blood and sweat.
The feet of our Lord.
Filthy and stained and dripping blood and sweat.
I did this - I put Him there - Not alone - but I helped.
Every time I sin, it is increases His pain.
If I refrain, it eases His pain.
Feel the heat of that day, the dryness of the air.
How thirsty He is…
…and so on…

How could I possibly sin while standing at the foot of the cross.

Peace
James
 
Two Powerful Prayers:

Prayer to St. Michael the Archangel
Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
by the Divine Power of God -
cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.
Amen.

The Memorare
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.
Amen.

God Bless
 
Not a prayer, but something that may help:

CHAPTER 13 – On Resisting Temptations [The Imitation of Christ]

So long as we live in this world, we cannot remain without trial and temptation: as Job says, “Man’s life on earth is a warfare.” We must therefore be on guard against temptations, and watchful in prayer, that the Devil find no means of deceiving us; for he never rests, but prowls around seeking whom he may devour. No one is so perfect and holy that he is never tempted, and we can never be secure from temptation.

Although temptations are so troublesome and grievous, yet they are often profitable to us, for by them we are humbled, cleansed, and instructed. All the Saints endured manly trials and temptations, and profited by them; but those who could not resist temptations became reprobate, and fell away. There is no Order so holy, nor place so secluded, where there are no troubles and temptations.

No man can be entirely free from temptation so long as he lives; for the source of temptation lies within our own nature, since we are born with an inclination towards evil. When one temptation or trial draws to a close, another takes its place; and we shall always have something to fight, for man has lost the blessing of original happiness. Many try to escape temptations, only to encounter them more fiercely, for no one can win victory by flight alone; it is only by patience and true humility that we can grow stronger than all our foes.

The man who only avoids the outward occasions of evil, but fails to uproot it in himself, will gain little advantage. Indeed, temptations will return upon him the sooner, and he will find himself in a worse state than before. Little by little and by patient endurance you will overcome them by God’s help, better than by your own violence and importunity. Seek regular advice in temptation, and never deal harshly with those who are tempted, but give them such encouragement as you would value yourself.

The beginning of all evil temptation is an unstable mind and lack of trust in God. Just as a ship without a helm is driven to and fro by the waves, so a careless man, who abandons his proper course, is tempted in countless ways. Fire tempers steel, and temptation the just man. We often do not know what we can bear, but temptation reveals our true nature. We need especially to be on our guard at the very onset of temptation, for then the Enemy may be more easily overcome, if he is not allowed to enter the gates of the mind: he must be repulsed at the threshold, as soon as he knocks. Thus the poet Ovid writes, “Resist at the beginning; the remedy may come too late.” For first there comes into the mind an evil thought: next, a vivid picture: then delight, and urge to evil, and finally consent. In this way the Enemy gradually gains complete mastery, when he is not resisted at first. And the longer a slothful man delays resistance, the weaker he becomes, and the stronger his enemy grows against him.

Some people undergo their heaviest temptations at the beginning of their conversion; some towards the end of their course; others are greatly troubled all their lives; while there are some whose temptations are but light. This is in accordance with the wisdom and justice of God’s ordinance, who weighs the condition and merits of every man, and disposes all things for the salvation of those whom He chooses.

We must not despair, therefore, when we are tempted, but earnestly pray God to grant us his help in every need. For, as Saint Paul says, “With the temptation, God will provide a way to overcome it, that we may be able to bear bear it.” So, let us humble ourselves under the hand of God, in every trial and trouble, for He will save and raise up the humble in Spirit. In all these trials, our progress is tested; in them great merit may be secured, and our virtue become evident. It is no great matter if we are devout and fervent when we have no troubles; but if we show patience in adversity, we can make great progress in virtue. Some are spared severe temptations, but are overcome in the lesser ones of every day, in order that they may be humble, and learn not to trust in themselves, but to recognize their frailty.
 
I don’t know about specific prayers, but the patron saints against impurity that I know of are:

St. Augustine
St. Mary of Egypt
St. Margaret of Cortona
St. Mary Magdalene
St. Dominic
and I’m sure there are plenty more.

The first 4 that I listed all suffered from sexual impurity. St. Dominic never suffered from this, but resisted a severe temptation.

You can always find a novena and/or simply talk to them in your own words and ask for their intercession… maybe even take up a devotion to one of them.
 
You can always find a novena and/or simply talk to them in your own words and ask for their intercession… maybe even take up a devotion to one of them.
Thanks. 🙂

What exactly is a devotion? And what benefits does asking a Saint have over asking God the Father or the Son?
 
The Three Hail Mary Devotion

With all my heart I praise Thee, Most Holy Virgin
above all Angels and Saints in Paradise, Daughter of
the Eternal Father, and I consecrate to Thee
my soul with all its faculties.
Recite a Hail Mary (In Honour of the Father)
By thy Holy and Immaculate Conception, O Mary, make my body pure and my soul holy; preserve me this day (this night) from mortal sin. Amen.

With all my heart I praise Thee, Most Holy Virgin
above all Angels and Saints in Paradise, beloved Mother
of the Son of God, and I consecrate to Thee my body
with all its senses.
Recite a Hail Mary (In honour of the Son)
By thy Holy and Immaculate Conception, O Mary, make my body pure and my soul holy; preserve me this day (this night) from mortal sin. Amen.

With all my heart I praise Thee, Most Holy Virgin above all Angels and Saints in Paradise, Beloved Spouse of the Holy Ghost, and I consecrate to Thee my heart with all its affections, and beseech Thee to obtain for me from the Most Holy Trinity all the graces necessary for salvation.
Recite a Hail Mary (In honour of the Holy Spirit)
By thy Holy and Immaculate Conception, O Mary, make my body pure and my soul holy; preserve me this day (this night) from mortal sin. Amen.

Pray this every morning, night and when you are tempted. Place yourself under the mantle of Mary and let her be your protection. For more information, go here: catholictradition.org/Mary/three.htm
God bless 🙂
 
Praying for you.

If I may, I would like you as well to pray for me because I suffer with the same thing. We who suffer together must stick together for 2 is always better than 1.

When you pray to a saint, you ask them to pray for you. 👍
 
I don’t know about specific prayers, but the patron saints against impurity that I know of are:

St. Augustine
St. Mary of Egypt
St. Margaret of Cortona
St. Mary Magdalene
St. Dominic
and I’m sure there are plenty more.

The first 4 that I listed all suffered from sexual impurity. St. Dominic never suffered from this, but resisted a severe temptation.

You can always find a novena and/or simply talk to them in your own words and ask for their intercession… maybe even take up a devotion to one of them.
What about St. Maria Goretti? She was killed because she refused to give into sexual sin.
 
I am 19 years old and have struggled with this sin for over a year. I have made some progress though. I used to masturbate 3-4 times a week, look at porn, and lust while doing it. Now, I masturbate about 1 time a week, I don’t look at porn anymore, and I don’t lust as often. I hope I get to where I don’t sin at all.

So, I was wondering, can you recommend any prayers that will help me overcome these sins?

-Thank you
A PRAYER FOR CARNAL IMMUNISATION
(From The Imitation of Christ by Thomas A. Kempis)
*Keep me, I beg You, most merciful God, from the cares of this life, lest I be too much entangled in them. Keep me from many necessities of the body, lest I be ensnared by pleasure. Keep me from all darkness of mind, lest I be broken by troubles and overcome.

I do not ask deliverance from those things which worldly vanity desires so eagerly, but from those miseries which, by the common curse of humankind, oppress the soul of Your servant in punishment and keep him from entering into the liberty of spirit as often as he would.

My God, Sweetness beyond words, make bitter all the carnal comfort that draws me from love of the eternal and lures me to its evil self by the sight of some delightful good in the present. Let it not overcome me, my God. Let not flesh and blood conquer me. Let not the world and its brief glory deceive me, nor the devil trip me by his craftiness.

Give me courage to resist, patience to endure, and constancy to persevere.

Give me the soothing unction of Your spirit rather than all the consolations of the world, and in place of carnal love, infuse into me the love of Your name.

Behold, eating, drinking, clothing, and other necessities that sustain the body are burdensome to the fervent soul. Grant me the grace to use such comforts temperately and not to become entangled in too great a desire for them. It is not lawful to cast them aside completely, for nature must be sustained; but Your holy law forbids us to demand superfluous things and things that are simply for pleasure, else the flesh would rebel against the spirit. In these matters, I beg, let Your hand guide and direct me, so that I may not overstep the law in any way.
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