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hawksnest23
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Hi I just wanted to see. Do you have to pray before and after Mass? I think it is a good idea but is it mandatory? Have you not fulfilled your obligation if you don’t? Thanks for all the help 
That doesn’t work at our Church. On Sundays we have 10 Masses and only 15 minutes between the end of a Mass and the start of the next one (apart from the very first Mass at 5.30 am and the first one after lunch at 3.30pm).My wife and myself pray together before Mass. We get there an hour before Mass is scheduled and then do our prayers, including a Rosary. It is wonderful to spend time in the church before Mass.
DGB
15 minutes or less isn’t enough to pray? I can hardly think up enough stuff to pray to fill up five minutes most of the time.That doesn’t work at our Church. On Sundays we have 10 Masses and only 15 minutes between the end of a Mass and the start of the next one (apart from the very first Mass at 5.30 am and the first one after lunch at 3.30pm).
You are missing the point. There is a continuous stream of people leaving and coming in and talking. There is no quiet time.15 minutes or less isn’t enough to pray? I can hardly think up enough stuff to pray to fill up five minutes most of the time.
I’m pretty sure this is being scrupulous.I have seen “Failing to make a proper Thanksgiving after Mass” on a number of examination of consciences. Obviously if you have a legitimate reason why you can’t stay for a few minutes, you can’t, but if it’s simple because you don’t want to, then I can see the sin involved.
I have done that before.Is it ok to pray in the car or at home instead of staying after Mass?
Surely you don’t claim that prayer is more important than for the music mafia to “teach you” the latest new song they found, or yet anoer sing-song tune for the Psalms . . .On the other hand, I was once advised at a particularly noisy parish that if I wanted to pray before Mass, I should go to chapel to pray.Imagine that! Wanting to pray in the church prior to Mass! gasp!
Vacation Bible School slideshow. It was so loud, I couldn’t get through a Hail Mary without losing my train of thought.Surely you don’t claim that prayer is more important than for the music mafia to “teach you” the latest new song they found, or yet anoer sing-song tune for the Psalms . . .
hawk
Not everything on Examinations of Consciences are mortal sins, and a lot of people have devotions to Confession and confess venial sins too. It is not scrupulous.I’m pretty sure this is being scrupulous.
Yes, making a prayer of thanksgiving is a very good thing, a morally praiseworthy action even. But is it a mortal sin if you don’t? I can’t think of which Commandment you’d be breaking in this case in order to elevate it to a grave matter.