It’s not necessary to pray to the saints, but we should understand what prayer is.
The true meaning of the word, “prayer,” is to ask, to beckon.
In other words, when we pray to a saint or the Blessed Mother, we’re not worshiping them as God, but we’re asking them to pray for us.
Remember, they’re in heaven in God’s presence.
A legendary story was when the Blessed Mother was on her death bed, St Peter asked her to tell Jesus that he loved her, when she met Him in heaven. The Blessed Mother told Peter, but he knows you love him. St Peter responded, I know, but it gives me joy knowing that you’ll do this for me.
So it is when we pray to saints, we’re merely asking them who are in the presence of God, to ask, beckon to God for us.
For a convert who has a hard time with this, no problem.
Remember the tenets of the faith are in the Nicene Creed, which was say at every Mass on Sunday’s;
The Nicene Creed
I believe in one God,
the Father almighty,
maker of heaven and earth,
of all things visible and invisible.
I believe in one Lord Jesus Christ,
the Only Begotten Son of God,
born of the Father before all ages.
God from God, Light from Light,
true God from true God,
begotten, not made, consubstantial with the Father;
through him all things were made.
For us men and for our salvation
he came down from heaven,
and by the Holy Spirit was incarnate of the Virgin Mary,
and became man.
For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate,
he suffered death and was buried,
and rose again on the third day
in accordance with the Scriptures.
He ascended into heaven
and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
He will come again in glory
to judge the living and the dead
and his kingdom will have no end.
I believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
who proceeds from the Father and the Son,
who with the Father and the Son is adored and glorified,
who has spoken through the prophets.
I believe in one, holy, catholic and apostolic Church.
I confess one Baptism for the forgiveness of sins
and I look forward to the resurrection of the dead
and the life of the world to come. Amen.
These are the tenets of faith, which we must believe for they are the truths revealed to the Church, by God.
Jim