Pregnancy deaths - who's to blame?

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Here’s a question that was essentially the reason I stopped trying to change the minds of my pro-choice step-family.

In the case of a ten year old becoming pregnant by rape, is it the fault of the Church if said rape victim dies trying to give birth? After all there was a case like this in Brazil and all those handling the issue were excommunicated for the abortion that ended up occuring.

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9 year old Brazil, 10 year old Mexico

There are several instances of step-fathers raping little girls and impregnating them. Sadly, the youngest child to give birth was 5 years old. snopes.com/pregnant/medina.asp
There have actually been quite a few 9 and 10 year olds that have successfully given birth. And abortion does cause a four times greater maternal mortality (within one year) than giving birth. (Gissler, M., et. al., “Pregnancy-associated deaths in Finland 1987-1994 — definition problems and benefits of record linkage,” Acta Obsetricia et Gynecolgica Scandinavica 76:651-657 (1997)). That does not include the increased risk of future breast cancer and infertility. It also seems that several of these extraordinarily young mothers are being forced against their wills to have these abortions.

There is no case in which the Catholic Church permits abortion. There are cases in which a pre-born child dies in the attempt to save the Mother (chemotherapy, for example) but the child’s death can never be the intent, only an unfortunate outcome.

What happened to these young girls is unbelievably horrible- they are quite frequently impregnated by their step-fathers, their mothers seem to be absent until it comes time for abortion, they are betrayed on so many levels and hurt deeply by the ones who should love them but how does the violent murder of another innocent life make any of that better?
 
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A major reason that I am vehemently opposed to the Church’s restrictions on abortion even in times of grave medical peril/rape is that it seems to disproportionately affect women as opposed to men.
Abortions disproportionately affect women. It’s the women that get PTSD, that suffer (and die) from complications and who are highly likely to be forced to undergo the procedure. How does the Church’s prohibition on abortion change the proportion?
 
In the case of a ten year old becoming pregnant by rape, is it the fault of the Church if said rape victim dies trying to give birth?
I don’t see how it would be the Church’s fault. The Church doesn’t make the moral law (the pro-choice atheist types who say it does are begging the question); it simply teaches it to others.

Some people imagine God is a consequentialist because they don’t really believe in God; because they think earthly goods are the only ones. What can you say to such people?
I’m sorry, but this is where I draw the line. We are talking about a CHILD here. I can’t believe someone here said that “People die. When and by what means is less important.” This little girl was 10 years old. Sometimes I think people are so eager to jump on the bandwagon behind the pro-life cause that they forget to exercise compassion and humility towards those affected by the painful, physical reminder that a pregnancy resulting from rape will bring.



Also, correct me if I’m wrong, but aren’t abortions allowed by the Church only if delivering the child to term will present a serious threat to the mother and/or baby’s health? Wouldn’t a 10 year-old rape victim fall under this category?
If my understanding of Catechism is correct, abortion is categorically off-the-table, even if the mother will die. I could be wrong on that though.

One should of course always be compassionate, especially to the dead. I don’t think there are words strong enough to express how unfortunate such a situation would be – much less how sick and fallen a world is that would produce one. But compassion for the unborn is important here, too, and no child deserves to be killed in its mother’s womb.
It’s good that no one died, but that is often not the case with children impregnated at a young age. We both agree that the rape and impregnation were obviously very traumatic experiences for anyone to experience, especially a very young child. What we don’t both agree on is whether or not it would be safe for a 10 year-old child to give birth, and whether an abortion or carrying the child to term and delivering would be more traumatic to her physical and mental well-being.
We Catholics aren’t exactly consequentialists. :-\ It is never right to do evil that good may result. And killing an unborn child is never anything but evil.
A major reason that I am vehemently opposed to the Church’s (apparent?) restrictions on abortion even in times of grave medical peril/rape is that it seems to disproportionately affect women as opposed to men. It’s WRONG to condemn a woman suffering medical complications from a pregnancy resulting from rape to her deathbed because “Thy will be done.” Unfortunately, some Fundamentalists would have abortion outlawed in all cases, including rape and medical danger, and ALL women, not just Christian women would have to either succumb to this fate or suffer a back-alley abortion.
With due respect, that is a really terrible reason to oppose the Church’s teaching on abortion. It doesn’t even make sense; the Church also teaches that men have a moral responsibility to care for their children and that the state should punish those that abrogate that duty.

Men and women are different creatures; they are called to different things in life. It’s by and large men that go out and die in on-the-job accidents or get killed in the line of duty, yet no one would imagine that men are being expected to shoulder an unfair burden. It’s simply a responsibility to which they’re called by virtue of the demands of their sex. Likewise with women; theirs is the joy – and the suffering – unique to motherhood.
I will admit that the moment of absolute personhood is a gray area for everyone, even for many Christians who in turn decide the safest route is to assume conception as that point.
But it’s not a gray area. “Personhood” here is irrelevant (and meaningless, anyway). Life is a *human *right – i.e., it is a right which accrues by virtue of one’s membership in the *human *race. To what race does the human fetus conceived by humans and nurtured in a human’s womb belong if not humanity?
You have to understand that since I rejected to Catholicism, that my only tools to navigate the world are reason and logic. That might sound scary to many posters here, but it has been very authentic and liberating to me.
I can tell you were not well catechized if you think the Church’s teachings are not based on reason. Are you familiar with Thomist natural law theory? Classical essentialism? Aristotelian teleology?
I would beg to differ. I attended Catholic school all my life - Pre-Kindergarten through my Senior year of college. I am well-versed in Catholic dogma. I would argue the Catholic Faith requires just that - a LOT of faith. Personally, I wish the Catholic Church would just defend the male priesthood, and other controversial practices as a matter of tradition and faith and leave it at that. The explanations for such things fell flat and ultimately ended up driving me away.
And what is faith except trust in what human reason has revealed to be true?
 
Truth is not linear… things don’t work that rigidly in the real world. We would all agree sex is not good or bad, but instead, depends on the context.

Forcing a 10 year old to have a kid for “moral reasons” is one of the most unmoral things I’ve ever read on here.
 
Forcing a 10 year old to have a kid for “moral reasons” is one of the most unmoral things I’ve ever read on here.
If you a priori suppose that morality doesn’t matter and embrace consequentialism, I suppose you would think so. But why should anyone listen to you?
 
Truth is not linear… things don’t work that rigidly in the real world. We would all agree sex is not good or bad, but instead, depends on the context.

Forcing a 10 year old to have a kid for “moral reasons” is one of the most unmoral things I’ve ever read on here.
You do know that there are grown women who have been in that position who do not agree with you? Besides, is it moral to force her to have an abortion?

We’re not talking about marrying a 10 year old off. We’re talking about what to do when a child is carrying a child. Both are innocent, both deserve a life, not just the one who is pregnant.

It would be highly immoral to deny the girl the best medical care available, because hers would be a high risk pregancy. High risk, almost certainly a candidate for C-section, but not a death sentence.
 
You misunderstand my point. The goal is not to make her forget the rape - an impossible though goal-worthy task, but to minimize the danger it will cause this little girl physically.
But your goal comes at the price of another innocent life. Sorry - I do not see the justification.
Also, you are very ignorant if you think “how shattered” this little girl’s world will be depends on how the rape occurred. Rape is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can every experience, and I would -NEVER- wish it upon another woman. It doesn’t matter HOW it physically occurred. The pain of rape is mental.
You are right and I withdraw my statement on this point.

Peace
James
 
Truth is not linear… things don’t work that rigidly in the real world. We would all agree sex is not good or bad, but instead, depends on the context.

**Forcing a 10 year old to have a kid for “moral reasons” is one of the most unmoral things I’ve ever read on here. **
So giving birth to the child is more immoral than murdering the child?

Yes the mother is too young, yes there are issues and matters that must be addressed but until someone can show me the Crime committed by the fetus that is worthy of the Death Penalty, I will continue to consider abortion to me immoral in all instances.

Peace
James
 

Forcing a 10 year old to have a kid for “moral reasons” is one of the most unmoral things I’ve ever read on here.
It is the rapist that forced her to become pregnant. You still appear to be operating under the reasoning that abortion “undoes” the pregnancy. Abortion is not a time machine. Either the unborn child is a human or it isn’t. The pro-choice position is actually more logical than the ‘pro-life, with exceptions’ position. At least the pro-choicers may be genuinely invincibly ignorant about what a fetus IS. But people who recognize unborn children and still support killing them in certain circumstances are incomprehensible to me.

The only way I can understand it is if you are decided based on emotion instead of reason. You can see the 10 year old’s pain and suffering while the ordeal of a child being murdered in the womb is easy to avert one’s eyes from. That’s a bad way to make moral decisions.
 
To the OP…
I know the thread took on a life of it’s own, but I hope it has been helpful to you…

Peace
James
 
Also, you are very ignorant if you think “how shattered” this little girl’s world will be depends on how the rape occurred. Rape is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can every experience, and I would -NEVER- wish it upon another woman. It doesn’t matter HOW it physically occurred. The pain of rape is mental.
I disagree- having your insides permanently damaged due to horrifically violent rape and rendering you incapable of ever bearing children is a whole lot worse pain than just mental pain. You can find peace in the Lord (for those who have not chosen to reject Him) but you cannot repair the physical damage that has been done.
 
I would beg to differ. I attended Catholic school all my life - Pre-Kindergarten through my Senior year of college. I am well-versed in Catholic dogma. I would argue the Catholic Faith requires just that - a LOT of faith. Personally, I wish the Catholic Church would just defend the male priesthood, and other controversial practices as a matter of tradition and faith and leave it at that. The explanations for such things fell flat and ultimately ended up driving me away.
I find the more I dig into the Church’s foundation or reason and logic, the easier it is to believe in the moral compass she teaches. But that does assume an acceptance of Sacred Scripture, Sacred Tradition, and Sacred Teaching Authority. Throw any one of these out and your foundation will topple over and you will loose faith.
 
We have been talking inlength about the morality surrounding this issue and I would like to ask if main question was posed because it’s origins are from a real case scenerio? If yes, where and when did it happen? How authentic is this story? Where does the child live? How much medical care is available? What was the child’s health both physical and emotional before the rape? Who was her rapist? Was it a relative or a total stranger? I ask because I think knowing some of the specifics will enable us to continue this discussion without making assumptions. I say this because rape is a handled differently in different societies and countries. For example if it happened in countries where medical care is vast and available for example in countries such as in Canada and USA, the situation would be handled differently compared if it happened in a country where medical care isn’t as available.

One person mentioned that the girl in question has three choices: abortion or allow the baby live until full term in such cases the child’s family can decide to either keep it or put it up for adoption. All three cases are’t bright and regardless of which decision is made:that child and her family will require psychological help. Rape is a horrible crime that has no age limit. I know in this case, the church’s opinion on abortion in cases of rape is a gray area because it has so many psychological ramifications and poses many ethical and moral questions.

Abortion causes psychological problems and there are rare cases when after it a woman losses her fertility. Society doesn’t talk about it but it does happen. Women sometimes regret it and it doesn’t seem right for an 10 year old to undergo one. It also isn’t right for the same child to spent the next 9 months carrying her rapist’s baby. Both scenarios are horrible and yet there can be a certain healing that comes to the raped child by allowing her to have the pregnancy and then make the decision where the baby is to go: either up for adoption or kept. Either way, at least the child will know her child is safe and can decide whether or not she wants contact with it. If she aborts it, the only time she’ll ever meet it is when she is in heaven.

I think the Church’s place in this case is to not judge but love and support the child and her family. During tough times, especially like this, families need their church to love them, pray for them and be there for them as they navigate through this horrendous situation. No one handles the situation the same and I think as a church we need to pray for those in this situation for courage to make the best decision for them. Then we can support and love the family regardless if we agree with the situation or not. The core to our Christian teachings is love and there is where love is the most needed.
 
We have been talking inlength about the morality surrounding this issue and I would like to ask if main question was posed because it’s origins are from a real case scenerio? If yes, where and when did it happen? How authentic is this story? Where does the child live? How much medical care is available? What was the child’s health both physical and emotional before the rape? Who was her rapist? Was it a relative or a total stranger? I ask because I think knowing some of the specifics will enable us to continue this discussion without making assumptions. I say this because rape is a handled differently in different societies and countries. For example if it happened in countries where medical care is vast and available for example in countries such as in Canada and USA, the situation would be handled differently compared if it happened in a country where medical care isn’t as available.
There were a few cases, and they were real. One was of a nine-year-old, raped by her step-father, found to be pregnant with twins, and was in Mexico. Her doctors advised an abortion because it was a high risk pregnancy, her mother agreed. There, abortion is illegal except for the case of rape, incest and when the woman’s life is in danger. The doctors and the mother were excommunicated. Nothing really was ever said of the child who was raped. I don’t even think the step-father was convicted, but he admitted to doing it.
One person mentioned that the girl in question has three choices: abortion or allow the baby live until full term in such cases the child’s family can decide to either keep it or put it up for adoption. All three cases are’t bright and regardless of which decision is made:that child and her family will require psychological help. Rape is a horrible crime that has no age limit. I know in this case, the church’s opinion on abortion in cases of rape is a gray area because it has so many psychological ramifications and poses many ethical and moral questions.
I’m not sure what you mean when you say, “the Church’s opinion on abortion in cases of rape is a gray area”, because there is no gray area with the Church’s rules. The Church doesn’t allow abortion in any cases at all. They only allow emergency medical treatment for the woman if she is in an emergency situation, even if the results end with the death of the fetus. And just to be clear, the medical treatment’s primary intention is to treat whatever is wrong with the woman, not the fetus. In an emergency, early caesarean with transfer of fetus to the NICU is acceptable to the Church too.
 
Abortion causes psychological problems and there are rare cases when after it a woman losses her fertility. Society doesn’t talk about it but it does happen. Women sometimes regret it and it doesn’t seem right for an 10 year old to undergo one. It also isn’t right for the same child to spent the next 9 months carrying her rapist’s baby. Both scenarios are horrible and yet there can be a certain healing that comes to the raped child by allowing her to have the pregnancy and then make the decision where the baby is to go: either up for adoption or kept. Either way, at least the child will know her child is safe and can decide whether or not she wants contact with it. If she aborts it, the only time she’ll ever meet it is when she is in heaven.
Yes, you are so right. Many women regret having abortions, but it is not really politically cool to talk about it much. There are places to go for help with healing such as silentnomoreawareness.org/
I think the Church’s place in this case is to not judge but love and support the child and her family. During tough times, especially like this, families need their church to love them, pray for them and be there for them as they navigate through this horrendous situation. No one handles the situation the same and I think as a church we need to pray for those in this situation for courage to make the best decision for them. Then we can support and love the family regardless if we agree with the situation or not. The core to our Christian teachings is love and there is where love is the most needed.
Yes. 👍
 
Truth is not linear… things don’t work that rigidly in the real world. We would all agree sex is not good or bad, but instead, depends on the context.

Forcing a 10 year old to have a kid for “moral reasons” is one of the most unmoral things I’ve ever read on here.
Are you trying to say that killing babies is neither good nor bad, but depends on the context? :eek:
 
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