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I posted this in the apologetics forum by accident. Any help would be great. Thank you…
Please help. My wife and I have been married for almost nine years. We are very happy and feel that we have a great marriage. We do have one thing that has been bothering us. Prior to getting married in the catholic church, my wife to be came down with a medical problem that could have been life threatening. (She actually had a routine test that came back showing the potential for a problem. She was actually never diagnosed with a medical condition and thankfully never was.) At any rate, she was without insurance. We were more concerned about getting her in to see a good doctor, and not the one at the free clinic. Not knowing what to do, we went to Reno and were married in front of a non-denominational minister. I then added her to my medical insurance. We went about our lifes as normal, not making any changes in our current situation and not telling anyone about this. We were later married in the church. We did this because we both were scared and felt it was the best thing to do. We didn’t intend to hurt anyone, or to cover anything up in regards to the marriage itself. We are wondering, did we do anything wrong in the eyes of the church? If so, what do we need to do to make things right? We feel our hearts were in the right place but have often wondered if this is a problem. Thank you for any help you may offer.
Please help. My wife and I have been married for almost nine years. We are very happy and feel that we have a great marriage. We do have one thing that has been bothering us. Prior to getting married in the catholic church, my wife to be came down with a medical problem that could have been life threatening. (She actually had a routine test that came back showing the potential for a problem. She was actually never diagnosed with a medical condition and thankfully never was.) At any rate, she was without insurance. We were more concerned about getting her in to see a good doctor, and not the one at the free clinic. Not knowing what to do, we went to Reno and were married in front of a non-denominational minister. I then added her to my medical insurance. We went about our lifes as normal, not making any changes in our current situation and not telling anyone about this. We were later married in the church. We did this because we both were scared and felt it was the best thing to do. We didn’t intend to hurt anyone, or to cover anything up in regards to the marriage itself. We are wondering, did we do anything wrong in the eyes of the church? If so, what do we need to do to make things right? We feel our hearts were in the right place but have often wondered if this is a problem. Thank you for any help you may offer.
