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Full stop. There’s your mistake right there. The drunk can have a firm purpose of amendment if they seek treatment. A person living with another person, outside of marriage, whom they identify as their lover can only have a firm purpose of amendment if they decide to live in a platonic manner - no sexual acts.We don’t know exactly what the priest said; at the moment our only source is an agenda-driven website.
That said, what you say is wrong on so many levels I’m not sure where to start. But I’ll attempt to do so with this. All of us, and I mean all of us are manifestly stubborn in sin. Without exception. By your understanding, none of us would ever be admissible to the Eucharist. And this makes a mockery of God’s infinite grace and mercy available at all times to all of us as often as we need it.
Let’s remove the word “homosexual” from the discussion for a moment. Let’s replace it with, oh, say an alcoholic who gets into a barroom brawl every Friday night. Nobody will argue with the “truth” that getting drunk is evil and a “grave disorder”. Nobody will argue with the “truth” that beating the snot out of someone every Friday night is gravely disordered.
However, if the alcoholic regrets his act and drags himself to confession before Mass, with a firm purpose of amendment …
Other than that, there is no firm resolve, and no absolution of the sin in Confession. So they remain in a state of grave sin and thus cannot receive and might lose the Kingdom. The priest is right. Just a couple of weeks ago the readings at Sunday Mass in fact warned us to counsel our brothers in sin, and if we fail to do it, we too are responsible for them. This priest was doing his job, God bless him, and he will see his reward when he hears, “Well done true and faithful servant.” As for his leaders…well, prayer will help them.
And yes, God’s mercy and grace are always available…in the case of a grave sinner (and that means most of us including me) that grace and mercy is available in the Confessional. Absolution requires firm resolve though, as I described above for these cases. Note I did not mention gays; divorced and remarried Catholics w/o annulment also must live platonically or they are not absolved.
We need to strive to follow the mind of Christ, not the spirit of the age. Christ made these rules; our job is to follow them. “If you love me you will keep My commandments,” He told us.
God bless you.