Pro-Life Activities: Futile, Misdirected Efforts? Window Dressing?

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This post is going to upset some people.

When I was at St. Joseph’s University in the 1970s, among other things I studied the abortion phenomenon, in the wake of Roe v. Wade.

Even back then, I was struck by the fact that abortion boomed as use of contraceptions in the culture boomed, after The Pill popularized contraceptive thinking. The standard answer of Pro-Choicers to Catholic Pro-Lifers has always been, “Well, if you are against abortion, why does your Church oppose use of contraceptives? YOU HYPOCRITES!” But I wondered, Is it possible that the Pro-Choicers have it backwards – that abortion is following use of contraceptives? That as contraceptive use boomed, (a) abortion became the “contraceptive” of choice when contraception fails and a pregnancy occurs, anyway; and (b) widespread contraceptive use generates a Society-wide ethos to the effect that one is entitled to “risk-free nookie,” and it is this contraception-driven misconception which impels folks, whether or not they actually use contraceptives, to seek an abortion when an inconvenient little one appears in the “oven.”

In other words, the root of the abortion movement IS widespread use of contraception.

A book by Germain Grisez, Abortion: The Myths, the Realities, and the Arguments, discusses work of sociologists which does, indeed, confirm that abortion booms AS use of contraceptives becomes widespread. I.e., socially, contraception causes abortion; it doesn’t stop it.

About a month ago, I heard a discussion on public radio of a more modern study which seemed to confirm the same thing.

Now, let us assume that this is true – that contraceptive use leads to abortions. I believe that it is true.

Let us now look at our Church.

Though almost every Diocese sponsors Pro-Life activities, and many Dioceses require parish budgets to have a Pro-Life actvity component, almost no Diocese or parish – in the world? – sponsors anti-contraception activities.

Our Diocese did it once. The bishop issued a memo instructing every priest to give a homily against contraceptive use on a particular Sunday. That Sunday came to be nicknamed “Contraception Sunday” in our Diocese. The Chancellor of the Diocese, who is my friend, told me that about one-third of the priests simply disobeyed. In the case of those who obeyed, hundreds of people walked out of Mass during the homily, and thousands wrote in nasty letters to the Diocese.

After that, Contraception Sunday never happened again.

In one parish not my own, one day I asked the girl in the confession line in front of me asked why Monsignor So-and-so had such long lines at his confessional. The girl smiled and said, “Oh, you can confess contraceptive use to him a hundred times, and he just doesn’t care! He’s fine with it!” Later, I asked Monsignor So-and-so if this was true. He said, “It’s not even a sin if you’re over forty-five! And it’s not in the Bible!” I.e., *Humanae Vitae *is wrong, he was hinting.

I told him that it is in the Bible, at four places, where contraceptive use in Greco-Roman society in the Early Church was being condemned.

I suspect that Parish after Parish, Diocese after Diocese, is quiet about contraception, and let’s Rome be the “heavy,” the “sourpuss,” on that question.

A federal study done in the 1990s alleges that 73.5% of the regular churchgoers in the Catholic Church who are sexually active regularly use contraception.

Bottom line: If, indeed, widespread contraception use, including among Catholics, drives Society’s “contraceptive ethos” – “Hey, man, I’m entitled to risk-free nookie” – then Pro-Life efforts are like standing in front of a moving truck without asking someone to simply turn off the motor.

They are completely wasted effort, and window dressing, to enable the Church to feel good about itself, while it quietly tolerates contraception use by many who come up to the front of the Church for the Eucharist, in order to avoid massive defections from the Catholic Church.

What a mess!
 
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BibleReader:
This post is going to upset some people.

When I was at St. Joseph’s University in the 1970s, among other things I studied the abortion phenomenon, in the wake of Roe v. Wade.

Even back then, I was struck by the fact that abortion boomed as use of contraceptions in the culture boomed, after The Pill popularized contraceptive thinking. The standard answer of Pro-Choicers to Catholic Pro-Lifers has always been, “Well, if you are against abortion, why does your Church oppose use of contraceptives? YOU HYPOCRITES!” But I wondered, Is it possible that the Pro-Choicers have it backwards – that abortion is following use of contraceptives? That as contraceptive use boomed, (a) abortion became the “contraceptive” of choice when contraception fails and a pregnancy occurs, anyway; and (b) widespread contraceptive use generates a Society-wide ethos to the effect that one is entitled to “risk-free nookie,” and it is this contraception-driven misconception which impels folks, whether or not they actually use contraceptives, to seek an abortion when an inconvenient little one appears in the “oven.”

In other words, the root of the abortion movement IS widespread use of contraception.

A book by Germain Grisez, Abortion: The Myths, the Realities, and the Arguments, discusses work of sociologists which does, indeed, confirm that abortion booms AS use of contraceptives becomes widespread. I.e., socially, contraception causes abortion; it doesn’t stop it.

About a month ago, I heard a discussion on public radio of a more modern study which seemed to confirm the same thing.

Now, let us assume that this is true – that contraceptive use leads to abortions. I believe that it is true.

Let us now look at our Church.

Though almost every Diocese sponsors Pro-Life activities, and many Dioceses require parish budgets to have a Pro-Life actvity component, almost no Diocese or parish – in the world? – sponsors anti-contraception activities.

Our Diocese did it once. The bishop issued a memo instructing every priest to give a homily against contraceptive use on a particular Sunday. That Sunday came to be nicknamed “Contraception Sunday” in our Diocese. The Chancellor of the Diocese, who is my friend, told me that about one-third of the priests simply disobeyed. In the case of those who obeyed, hundreds of people walked out of Mass during the homily, and thousands wrote in nasty letters to the Diocese.

After that, Contraception Sunday never happened again.

In one parish not my own, one day I asked the girl in the confession line in front of me asked why Monsignor So-and-so had such long lines at his confessional. The girl smiled and said, “Oh, you can confess contraceptive use to him a hundred times, and he just doesn’t care! He’s fine with it!” Later, I asked Monsignor So-and-so if this was true. He said, “It’s not even a sin if you’re over forty-five! And it’s not in the Bible!” I.e., *Humanae Vitae *is wrong, he was hinting.

I told him that it is in the Bible, at four places, where contraceptive use in Greco-Roman society in the Early Church was being condemned.

I suspect that Parish after Parish, Diocese after Diocese, is quiet about contraception, and let’s Rome be the “heavy,” the “sourpuss,” on that question.

A federal study done in the 1990s alleges that 73.5% of the regular churchgoers in the Catholic Church who are sexually active regularly use contraception.

Bottom line: If, indeed, widespread contraception use, including among Catholics, drives Society’s “contraceptive ethos” – “Hey, man, I’m entitled to risk-free nookie” – then Pro-Life efforts are like standing in front of a moving truck without asking someone to simply turn off the motor.

They are completely wasted effort, and window dressing, to enable the Church to feel good about itself, while it quietly tolerates contraception use by many who come up to the front of the Church for the Eucharist, in order to avoid massive defections from the Catholic Church.

What a mess!
 
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. I’ve often thought the same thing.

I wish our priests and deacons would speak out against contraception more. But it isn’t enough just to say it’s wrong–we have to say *why *it’s wrong.

As for that priest who was telling people (and in the confessional!) that contraception was A-OK, he will have to answer to God for it. (I would have asked that priest, “So God thinks it’s okay to change our biology from the way He designed it? He thinks it’s okay for us to override His design?”) One time I asked a priest a question about birth control during confession, and he said, “Because you are asking me this in the confessional, I am bound to tell you the truth.”–as if he wasn’t bound to tell me the truth at any other time! He tried to weasel out of answering me, but I insisted. I actually had to tell him I wanted to submit to the authority of the Church.

One thing that is an absolute shame is that people don’t realize the *power *of obedience to the Church. When we are in accordance with Christ, He overwhelms us with His graces. Now that’s power!
 
Here’s a list of certain activities that the Church teaches is evil for humans and OK for animals:

Killing
Neutering/contracepting
Invitro fertilization
Cloning
Artificial insemination
Polygamy
Genetic engineering
Aborting
Euthanizing

Note that the line on all these activities is drawn between Human and animal, not between one activity and another. So if it is OK to clone a sheep, then it is OK to euthanize them, abort them, artificially inseminate them, and ultimately kill them.

Same with Humans. Either None of these things are acceptable, or they will all be acceptable.
 
Black Jaque:
Here’s a list of certain activities that the Church teaches is evil for humans and OK for animals:

Killing
Neutering/contracepting
Invitro fertilization
Cloning
Artificial insemination
Polygamy
Genetic engineering
Aborting
Euthanizing

Note that the line on all these activities is drawn between Human and animal, not between one activity and another. So if it is OK to clone a sheep, then it is OK to euthanize them, abort them, artificially inseminate them, and ultimately kill them.

Same with Humans. Either None of these things are acceptable, or they will all be acceptable.
Going off your list, if these things are ok for ANIMALS then pro-choice people must think we HUMANS are ANIMALS…meow
 
Wasn’t that part of it? Pro-choicers argued that very premise - fetus’s are not humans. Pro-euthanasia-ers argued that Terri was in a persistant vegatative state (ug, that’s even lower than animals)

There seems to be a growing number of people who confess to believe that human life is not sacred, or is no more sacred than animal life.

I actually suspect that the PeTA movement is another tentacle of the culture of death. Not that cruelty to animals is good. But that animal “rights” helps blurr the distinction between human and animal.

Think about it. The Church draws the line between humans and animals. Satan is out there trying to blur the line. There are two ways to blur the line. Reduce humans to animal status, or elevate animals to human status.
 
There are orthodox priests who actually will at least mention that it is a sin in a regular homily. I have heard it a number of times (over a period of years, naturally) from the pulpit here. I have never heard an entire homily on the topic, but I have heard calls to go to confession and mention that contraception is a reason to go. So there is hope!

I do agree, though, that we don’t seem to make much effort to do anything about the supposed vast numbers of pew sitters who use contraception. The don’t like to tell you contraception is wrong in RCIA, either. Are the pews really full of contracepting folks?
 
Black Jaque:
Here’s a list of certain activities that the Church teaches is evil for humans and OK for animals:

Killing
Neutering/contracepting
Invitro fertilization
Cloning
Artificial insemination
Polygamy
Genetic engineering
Aborting
Euthanizing

Note that the line on all these activities is drawn between Human and animal, not between one activity and another. So if it is OK to clone a sheep, then it is OK to euthanize them, abort them, artificially inseminate them, and ultimately kill them.

Sorry, I disagree with about half the things considered OK for animals. It is not OK to clone them, use them for genetic engineering, experimentation, killing or aborting their fetuses. I would say it’s ok to euthanize them if they have a painful disease and the prognosis is poor. Contraception, neutering and spaying only improves their lives. You may think there’s something wrong that animals have so many rights, but in actuality they don’t. They have much fewer rights compared to humans. In all my years working in animal shelters I’ve seen cats and dogs who come in pregnant to a shelter and their babies are surgically aborted. No one asks a pregnant cat if she wants her kittens destroyed. I’ve seen cats become depressed and neurotic because they loose their kittens, their bodies are geared for nurturing them and they are aborted from their bodies. Animals have few rights, so it annoys me to see people get angry about the few rights they have. If you torture and kill a dog the most you will get is one or two years in jail, or get off with community work. Kill a human and you may get the death penalty. I don’t see how any of the animal rights issues have to do anything with the “culture of death”. To me stewardship of our creation has more to do with the culture of life, not death.
 
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Celeste88:
Black Jaque:
Here’s a list of certain activities that the Church teaches is evil for humans and OK for animals:

Killing
Neutering/contracepting
Invitro fertilization
Cloning
Artificial insemination
Polygamy
Genetic engineering
Aborting
Euthanizing

Note that the line on all these activities is drawn between Human and animal, not between one activity and another. So if it is OK to clone a sheep, then it is OK to euthanize them, abort them, artificially inseminate them, and ultimately kill
them.

Sorry, I disagree with about half the things considered OK for animals. It is not OK to clone them, use them for genetic engineering, experimentation, killing or aborting their fetuses. I would say it’s ok to euthanize them if they have a painful disease and the prognosis is poor. Contraception, neutering and spaying only improves their lives. You may think there’s something wrong that animals have so many rights, but in actuality they don’t. They have much fewer rights compared to humans. In all my years working in animal shelters I’ve seen cats and dogs who come in pregnant to a shelter and their babies are surgically aborted. No one asks a pregnant cat if she wants her kittens destroyed. I’ve seen cats become depressed and neurotic because they loose their kittens, their bodies are geared for nurturing them and they are aborted from their bodies. Animals have few rights, so it annoys me to see people get angry about the few rights they have. If you torture and kill a dog the most you will get is one or two years in jail, or get off with community work. Kill a human and you may get the death penalty. I don’t see how any of the animal rights issues have to do anything with the “culture of death”. To me stewardship of our creation has more to do with the culture of life, not death.:clapping: Thank you. I never thought to look at things this way.
 
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BibleReader:
I suspect that Parish after Parish, Diocese after Diocese, is quiet about contraception, and let’s Rome be the “heavy,” the “sourpuss,” on that question.

A federal study done in the 1990s alleges that 73.5% of the regular churchgoers in the Catholic Church who are sexually active regularly use contraception.

What a mess!
This is one of the main reasons, the “Catholic Church” in the United States is a religion of incredible hopeless. It shows that there is no hope for marriage for someone who believes what Catholic Church teaches. And single people continue to be rejected by the local church.
 
Chris Jacobsen:
This is one of the main reasons, the “Catholic Church” in the United States is a religion of incredible hopeless. It shows that there is no hope for marriage for someone who believes what Catholic Church teaches. And single people continue to be rejected by the local church.
Yes there is - I’m married. So is my wife. That’s two already (although we don’t live in the US). I’m sure others will add their names to the list too.
 
You are one of the fortunate few.

Around here, with a few exceptions, those who get married are able to get married because they have defied the laws of God. People who are willing to marry someone who is divorced, are willing to marry someone who isn’t Catholic, are willing to engage in premarital sex, are willing to leave the Catholic Church, are willing to practice birth control can get married. Those who are not willing to do these things cannot get married.
 
Chris Jacobsen:
You are one of the fortunate few.

Around here, with a few exceptions, those who get married are able to get married because they have defied the laws of God. … Those who are not willing to do these things cannot get married.
That is simply not true and there is no reason for it to be true.
 
Chris Jacobsen:
You are one of the fortunate few.

Around here, with a few exceptions, those who get married are able to get married because they have defied the laws of God. People who are willing to marry someone who is divorced, are willing to marry someone who isn’t Catholic, are willing to engage in premarital sex, are willing to leave the Catholic Church, are willing to practice birth control can get married. Those who are not willing to do these things cannot get married.
They can’t? Would you care to expound on that?
 
Bishop Fulton J. Sheen

If I were not a Catholic, and were looking for the true Church in the world
today, I would look for the one Church which did not get along well with the
world. In other words, I would look for the Church, which the world hates. My
reason for doing this would be that if Christ is in any one of the churches
of the world today, He must still be hated, as He was when He was on earth in
the flesh. If you would find Christ today, then find the Church that does not
get along with the world. Look for the Church which is accused of being
behind the times, as Our Lord was accused of being ignorant and never having
learned. Look for the Church which men sneer at as socially inferior, as they
sneered at Our Lord because He came from Nazareth. Look for the Church which
is accused of having a devil, as Our Lord was accused of being possessed by
Beelzebub, the Prince of Devils. Look for the Church which, in seasons of
bigotry, men say must be destroyed in the name of God as men crucified Christ
and thought they had done a service to God. Look for the Church which the
world rejects because it claims to be infallible, as Pilate rejected Christ
because He called Himself the Truth. Look for the Church which amid the
confusions of conflicting opinions, its members love as they love Christ, and
respect its Voice as the very voice of its Founder, and the suspicion will
grow, that if the Church is unpopular with the spirit of the world, then it
is unworldly, and if it is unworldly, it is other-worldly. Since it is
other-worldly it is infinitely loved and infinitely hated as was Christ
Himself. But only that which is Divine can be infinitely hated and infinitely
loved. Therefore, the Church is Divine"

(from his introduction to Radio Replies).

(commentary)

Down through the centuries, the Roman Catholic Church has been the biggest
target of religious hatred, although some cults and other religions have also
been hated. But they have been hated more for their un-Christ-like qualities
than for their Christ-like ones. The Catholic Church is unique; it is hated
for following the counter-cultural Christ.

It is only this Counter-Cultural Christ that offers us life and salvation
(John 6:66-68). He speaks life in the midst of our culture of death. There is
no place for contraception, or its handmaiden, abortion, in the Kingdom of
God. The true Christ teaches that we must deny our very selves in order to
inherit this Kingdom, even in sexual matters. He teaches that re-marriage
after divorce is adultery. He exalts the status of women. But he deliberately
chooses not to appoint any woman to be an Apostle. This Christ teaches that
the Holy Eucharist, which is His very Body and Blood, plays a vital role in
our salvation. He also teaches that His Church speaks with God’s authority.
It is His Church, the Roman Catholic Church, that teaches all these hard
sayings which lead to eternal life.
 
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BibleReader:
This post is going to upset some people.

When I was at St. Joseph’s University in the 1970s, among other things I studied the abortion phenomenon, in the wake of Roe v. Wade.

Even back then, I was struck by the fact that abortion boomed as use of contraceptions in the culture boomed, after The Pill popularized contraceptive thinking.
Though almost every Diocese sponsors Pro-Life activities, and many Dioceses require parish budgets to have a Pro-Life actvity component, almost no Diocese or parish – in the world? – sponsors anti-contraception activities.

Our Diocese did it once. The bishop issued a memo instructing every priest to give a homily against contraceptive use on a particular Sunday. That Sunday came to be nicknamed “Contraception Sunday” in our Diocese. The Chancellor of the Diocese, who is my friend, told me that about one-third of the priests simply disobeyed. In the case of those who obeyed, hundreds of people walked out of Mass during the homily, and thousands wrote in nasty letters to the Diocese.

After that, Contraception Sunday never happened again.

I suspect that Parish after Parish, Diocese after Diocese, is quiet about contraception, and let’s Rome be the “heavy,” the “sourpuss,” on that question.

A federal study done in the 1990s alleges that 73.5% of the regular churchgoers in the Catholic Church who are sexually active regularly use contraception.

Bottom line: If, indeed, widespread contraception use, including among Catholics, drives Society’s “contraceptive ethos” – “Hey, man, I’m entitled to risk-free nookie” – then Pro-Life efforts are like standing in front of a moving truck without asking someone to simply turn off the motor.

They are completely wasted effort, and window dressing, to enable the Church to feel good about itself, while it quietly tolerates contraception use by many who come up to the front of the Church for the Eucharist, in order to avoid massive defections from the Catholic Church.

What a mess!
I think it is a bit simplistic to say that the pro-life movement is either window dressing or a way to make the Church feel good about itself.

Part of the difficulty is that we keep focusing on the symptoms and not the problem.

You are right about contraception leading to abortion, but you fail to ask the next question: What is it that leads so many to contraception?

It is not one simple thing, but a number of issues and attitudes. Part of it is a failure to understand the natural connection between sexual activity and children; contraception has in effect broken that connection in people’s mind.

Concupicense adds fuel to the fire - the desire to have what I want, the desire to be self-oriented (selfish) rather than other oriented. That is impacted by a whole series of things - materialism and secularism come immediately to mind. So does our almost mindless willingness towards social experimentation.

The problem is a seriously complex one, and I can understand why there were so many angry reactions; in part driven, no doubt by guilt; but I suspect in large part because a complex question is not solved by a simple answer; and the “You’re going to hell if you contracept” approach, while true at its roots, does nothing to educate as to why. Give people the why, and those of good heart will at least listen and struggle with the issue.

To give you a different, but somewhat similar example: the issue of homosexual marriage has been couched in terms of civil rights. It has nothing to do with civil rights, but as long as anyone opposed to such an oxymoron continues to discuss the issue as if it could be disproved, they will lose the arguement at the heart level; and the heart level does strange things to the intellect. what it has to do with is natural law; but that is a term that people have rejected, in large part because of its use in the contraception arguement.

We are graced by the work of John Paul 2 in Theology of the Body, where he came at the question from a very authentic, but not scholastic approach. In other words, he didn’t go at it from a “natural law” approach as scholastic philosophy would.
 
I agree that contraception is at the heart of the problem, and unfortunately, many pro-abortion advocates say that promoting birth control is the way to lower abortion rates, and something we should work together on. They can’t understand why we won’t jump on that bandwagon.

I disagree, however, that all pro-life efforts are window dressing. Just making people aware of the issue is important. So many today just accept abortion without questioning it in any way. Just asking, “so when do you think life begins?” can go a long way in showing someone the evil of abortion.

In the Catholic Church, yes, there must be greater efforts to teach the truth about contraception, but in the greater political arena, it is not something we can legally dictate. Except in the case of early chemical abortions due to birth control pills, contraception does not actually kill, so cannot be legally regulated.

I think some of the most effective and powerful efforts on the part of the Pro-Life movement, which still do not receive as much emphasis as they should, are the crisis pregnancy centers. These do not condemn a woman for pregnancy, they do not tell her to use contraception. They accept her womanhood, and encourage her to embrace the blessing of life that God has brought, often if through a sinful act of fornication. What glorious goodness is our God!

These centers provide real alternatives, offering hope, support, and love. Whether a woman chooses to keep her child, or give her baby to a loving adoptive family, by bearing her baby to term, she can achieve a more full realization of the awesome responsibility that sex involves, and will probably approach it in the future with a much more respectful attitude. Even if she does not fully abstain until marriage, do you think she will ever see it as casually as she did before becoming a mother? Abortion only reinforces promiscuity and the attitude of sex as recreation. It is such an ugly choice.
 
I appreciate the really good comments, here.

I guess I was venting resentment at clergy actually indirectly encouraging abortion by muffling and even contradicting the Magisterium’s condemnation of contraception; and then, after it encourages abortion in this fashion, dedicating resources to stopping the Pro-Choice movement, the very thing they subtly help to generate.
 
Celeste88,

That’s fine if you disagree. Please do not misunderstand me however, what I mean by it being OK for animals I mean that it CAN be OK for animals. These things are never OK for humans. Note torture was not on the list. You can’t torture animals, but you can kill them.
It is not OK to clone them, use them for genetic engineering, experimentation, killing or aborting their fetuses.
But those are your opinions - what does the Catholic Church teach? Show me where the Church says cloning, genetic engineering, experimentation, killing, or aborting is verboten for animals?

Yes I know that legally animals have few rights - which is as it should be. However, I am pointing towards the group of people who are pushing to change those laws. There are people who do not think it is proper to even own pets.
 
Black Jaque:
Celeste88,

Note torture was not on the list. You can’t torture animals, but you can kill them.

Show me where the Church says cloning, genetic engineering, experimentation, killing, or aborting is verboten for animals?

.
Most of these will include torture…
 
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