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I lost my job about 4 years ago and then my wife got sick and had to leave hers as well. I had to start my own business so I could stay home with spouse. At the point that this all started, my wife and made in excess of $100,000/yr together and today (4 yrs later) we barely scrape by and eat a lot of hot dogs. We have lost all luxuries that we ever had and use everything until it falls apart (literally) and then I fix it and we use it again.
The problem that I have is that my wife is mad all the time over the issue of money. I personally praise God daily (many times) that I did not lose everything. I am thankful that I have a place to live, sleep, food to eat, clothes to wear and a car to get around in. We just can’t live like we once did. We can not shop at the best stores or have two cars (although that is fine, we don’t go anywhere so we only need one).
How, in times like this; does one keep faith that things will get better and is it possible that I may be punished for my wife’s lack of thankfulness? The book of Ezekiel (18.1-18.20) tells me that we all suffer because of our own sins, not our children’s or parent’s, how about spouses?? I get up early every day and spend an hour or so reading the bible and praying the rosary (I am not Catholic yet, at least not officially, I am in my heart though). Please lend me some advice and (name removed by moderator)ut on this matter. I am starting to think that I am crazy. My wife says that my devotion to Jesus has tainted my desire for a good lifestyle and yet I assure her that I want to do good and live well - just not as a center point of my life. If God wills it for me, then great - if not then I will live with it! She says that this is craziness?? Help!
The problem that I have is that my wife is mad all the time over the issue of money. I personally praise God daily (many times) that I did not lose everything. I am thankful that I have a place to live, sleep, food to eat, clothes to wear and a car to get around in. We just can’t live like we once did. We can not shop at the best stores or have two cars (although that is fine, we don’t go anywhere so we only need one).
How, in times like this; does one keep faith that things will get better and is it possible that I may be punished for my wife’s lack of thankfulness? The book of Ezekiel (18.1-18.20) tells me that we all suffer because of our own sins, not our children’s or parent’s, how about spouses?? I get up early every day and spend an hour or so reading the bible and praying the rosary (I am not Catholic yet, at least not officially, I am in my heart though). Please lend me some advice and (name removed by moderator)ut on this matter. I am starting to think that I am crazy. My wife says that my devotion to Jesus has tainted my desire for a good lifestyle and yet I assure her that I want to do good and live well - just not as a center point of my life. If God wills it for me, then great - if not then I will live with it! She says that this is craziness?? Help!