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Okay, I’m just learning, so here goes…
As I understand it, if I was a confirmed Catholic and died having just one mortal sin not confessed, would I go to Hell because I had not repented it in confession? If not, then why do I need to confess anything in confession?
When I was in the Philly DA’s Office, one of my cases was a prosecution of a defendant we nicknamed “German Shepherd Lady,” who, you guessed it, did “lay with a beast,” again and again and again, and sold pictures of herself doing it. After I secured a prison sentence, I thought, How can a person confess something like that in the confessional? If anyone is going to hide a mortal sin in the confessional, THAT’S going to be it! I also thought, How does someone explain that to God?
In any event, we all have sins we would rather hide in making our confession. I think that there is a strong tendency for the most “mortal” mortal sins to be the ones we are most intent on hiding by not confessing them.
In any event, a “mortal sin” is NOT just an “F” on the Midterm Report Card, so that, after your Midterm Report Card reads F,F,F,F,F,F, you work hard and your Final Report Card reads A,A,A,A,A,F.
Instead, a “mortal sin” is a state of alienation from God. If you intentionally “protect” the shame of a mortal sin by not disclosing the mortal sin to the priest, or by minimizing it in a “laundry list” so that it hasn’t REALLY been confessed, you are protecting a state of alienation from God. How can your Act of Contrition in Confession by valid, in such a case? Probably, NO mortal sins were forgiven in those confessions where a mortal sin was intentionally hidden , because they were invalid because the contrition was invalid…