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So, there is this guy at my church who I was acquaintances with. The other night, we were both at the same church activity. We ended up sitting together and talked all night. I am becoming extremely attracted to him, the problem is he has a girlfriend. He ended up calling me later that night because he was extremely tired and still had to drive the half hour ride home. I asked him why he wasn’t talking to his girlfriend and he told me she got mad at him and hung up with him. We ended up talking for over an hour that night because I wanted to make sure he got home okay. It seems like we definitely have a lot in common and we both live in the same city and go to the same church. I am a strong Catholic and he also comes from a strong Catholic family. His girlfriend lives hours away. He told me I seem like a great person with great morals and would love to hang out with me, definitely as friends. In fact, he asked that we don’t hang out alone all the time since he does have a girlfriend. I would never be the person who would intentionally get in the way of someone else’s relationship and I don’t want to be that girl who breaks them up. He definitely doesn’t seem like the type who would even think of cheating on his girlfriend. The fact that he doesn’t want to hang out with me alone was honorable. The question is “am I playing with fire?” I have been needing to make friends with people who live in my area and go to my church. I just don’t want anyone to end up getting hurt.