RomanRyan1088:
- Can i ask my grandmother to pray for me, because i think she is in heaven.
This is the problem i have, how can i pray to people when i don’t even know they are in heaven?
I hope those I love do not make the mistake of thinking I was so good I went straight to heaven.
St. Louis Bertrand’s father was an exemplary Christian, as we should naturally expect, being the father of so great a Saint. He had even wished to become a Carthusian monk until he learned that it was not God’s will for him.
When he died, after long years spent in the practice of every Christian virtue, his saintly son, fully aware of the rigors of God’s Justice, offered many Masses and poured forth the most fervent supplications for the soul he so dearly loved.
A vision of his father still in Purgatory forced him to intensify a hundredfold his suffrages. He added most severe penances and long fasts to his Masses and prayers. Yet eight whole years passed before he obtained the release of his father.
I do not imagine that your grandmother was not a very good and wonderful women, but it would be more prudent to pray
for her than to pray
to her.
Souls in purgatory are suffering, we are the only ones that can help them, they can no longer help themselves - it is a great sin to forget the dead. Please let us not make assumptions that those we love are in heaven.
“As there is no hunger, no thirst, no poverty, no need, no pain, no suffering to compare with what the Souls in Purgatory endure, so there is no alms more deserving, none more pleasing to God, none more meritorious for us than the alms, the prayers, the Masses we give to the Holy Souls.”