One day, I was parked in the back of the parking lot at the supermarket snarfing down a candy bar. It was my only 2 hours away from home that week, and as much as I love my dh and 3 kids, I was relishing every second to myself that day. As I sat there, blankly staring out the window and enjoying talk radio and chocolate, a man parked next to me and went into the store. When he came out of the store a while later and saw that I was still there, he did a double take, and must have thought I was depressed or something. From his car, he knocked on his window, got me to roll down my window, and asked me if I was ok. After I smiled and said, “thanks I’m fine”, he left. I was a little embarrassed, but mostly, just completely surprised by the goodness of a stranger, to care enough about the well being of another stranger to reach out like that. It may have been a small gesture, but it still required him to put himself out there. And I believe it is gestures like that that can turn a person’s day around if they are contemplating suicide or are just otherwise really sad. I was actually perfectly content to begin with, but this random kindness totally perked up my day.