RCIA q #2

[marie0129]

I am and have been a practicing Christian since I was 15 going to church, Bible study, mission trips, etc to share and live my faith. I am now 22 and am curious.

Since I turned 20 I have been still attending my original Baptist denomination churches even when I have been moving and also attending RCIA in College Station for almost a year as I was interested in the Catholic denomination. Now I feel in my heart this is the true church and want to be confirmed.

Since attending RCIA in College Station, I moved back to my home town and am now attending RCIA here. They are acting like I haven’t told them I attended for a year prior and even when I have expressed how dedicated I am to my faith, they act like I am just finding out about Jesus. We talked about evangelization, and everyone in the baptist church has a clear definition of this learned, and after the talk, which I was very involved in, the leader came up to me and literally says, “I know it seems like a lot at first, but you’ll get used to it”…?

I was wondering if she was even present to hear what I was saying, but that’s beside the point.

I have been learning and understanding all the Catholic beliefs as well as reading my catechism and Bible and making sure this is where I want to be for a little over 2 years and would very much like to be confirmed and know in my heart this is right. How can I get this point across without sounding rude in anyway when it seems noone is listening to me?

Thanks!

 

[Catholic1954]

You should make an appointment and discuss your concerns with the pastor. He can determine if you are ready to be confirmed now. Confirmations are usually held this time of the year, so talk to him soon. Remember, he is the one in charge and if he says you must wait, then it must be so. Welcome Home!

 

[marie0129]

Thanks, I have not talked to (excuse my spelling) mon senior yet about this, only the RCIA leaders. Thanks for the information.

 

[mary_bobo]

Thanks, I have not talked to (excuse my spelling) mon senior yet about this, only the RCIA leaders. Thanks for the information.

Don’t worry about spelling. We know what you mean. Good suggestion. If you are told to wait, don’t worry. You can still go to RCIA as you will learn things along the way that you did not hear before. I will say a prayer for you and I wish you well in the future as you seek full membership in the Church. God bless.

 

[SaintFrancis333]

As a baptist convert myself, I can reassure you that you are on the right path. Only thing I’d point out (which comes down to semantics) is that Catholicism is not a denomination. Christ created His One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church. Not simply a universal Catholic Church but a physical and literal Catholic Church. That is all He created. Catholicism is Christianity at it’s fullest expression. Catholicism is “pre” denominational. We are the originals

 

[classica87]

As a baptist convert myself, I can reassure you that you are on the right path. Only thing I’d point out (which comes down to semantics) is that Catholicism is not a denomination. Christ created His One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church. Not simply a universal Catholic Church but a physical and literal Catholic Church. That is all He created. Catholicism is Christianity at it’s fullest expression. Catholicism is “pre” denominational. We are the originals

I like this. I just thought I’d point out that this is most likely why you’re getting treated like you’re “just finding out about Jesus.” If you aren’t a convert in RCIA, then you are literally a baby Christian; you don’t know anything, so the RCIA program is designed to teach you all that.

I know I was frustrated when I went through this year. Having taken theology classes and putting myself through nearly three years of discernment and study before joining the class, the sometimes simplistic approach, to be honest, insulted my intelligence. Be patient and pray; some people in the class need those lessons, so you must go through them. Rejoice for those who are coming to Christ. Open yourself up, be humble, and you will find yourself enjoying the class more and seeing your faith in a new light!

 

[Canuck000]

I just completed RCIA and was confirmed a couple weeks ago. Most of the class was made up of Baptists. 2 were baptist preachers. They enjoyed and learned a lot and said they studied thoroughly and independently before making their decision. Classes are still continuing till end of May. We all agree we wouldn’t have wanted it any different. We have so much love in that class for each other and the whole team.
Go. Learn. Enjoy.
I have a need for continued learning now and have enrolled into Catholicism classes through Fr. Barron’s program in our local Church.
Have fun. Welcome Home!!

 

[marie0129]

Thank you all! And you are completely understanding me when you said it insulted your intelligence lol Icwas like…? After all of your comments I have a few things left to wait for. I assume the word denomination as I am used to the protestant view Things are very different between the two delivisions. I’m just happy I discovered the true church. You’re all very supportive and happy. <3

 

[PJM]

=marie0129;10609234]I am and have been a practicing Christian since I was 15 going to church, Bible study, mission trips, etc to share and live my faith. I am now 22 and am curious.

Since I turned 20 I have been still attending my original Baptist denomination churches even when I have been moving and also attending RCIA in College Station for almost a year as I was interested in the Catholic denomination. Now I feel in my heart this is the true church and want to be confirmed.

Since attending RCIA in College Station, I moved back to my home town and am now attending RCIA here. They are acting like I haven’t told them I attended for a year prior and even when I have expressed how dedicated I am to my faith, they act like I am just finding out about Jesus. We talked about evangelization, and everyone in the baptist church has a clear definition of this learned, and after the talk, which I was very involved in, the leader came up to me and literally says, “I know it seems like a lot at first, but you’ll get used to it”…?

I was wondering if she was even present to hear what I was saying, but that’s beside the point.

I have been learning and understanding all the Catholic beliefs as well as reading my catechism and Bible and making sure this is where I want to be for a little over 2 years and would very much like to be confirmed and know in my heart this is right. How can I get this point across without sounding rude in anyway when it seems noone is listening to me?

Thanks!

Ask yourself Marie;
WHO’S IN CHARGE? YOU OR GOD

Our Catholic church goes directly and all the way back to the Apostles. That as you know is 2,000 YEARS. In that time period what we believe and practice, much like an onion has been revealed sorta in layers.

Unlike any other church I’m aware of of our SACRAMENTS hold great meaning and opportunity. The sacraments of Catholic Iniation: Baptism; Confession [for adults like yourself], Eucharist, and Confirmation are to be fully understood and lived.

Confirmation creates a special personal covenant-relationship beteween you and Christ; AND Christ one True Church. It is expected from the Church and Christ Himself that ALL know what they are agreeing to in being Confirmed in His Faith. That when you say 'I DO BELIEVE"; that you FULLY understand wat it is your committing too. SERIOUS STUFF!

We are more structured because we are alone assured God’s Personal Protection: we ALONE can explain the Entire bible and use the ENTIRE bible. Which is critical to ones salvation.

Mt. 16:1519
John 14: 16-17 [the promise]
[Filled in] John 20:21-22
MK. 16;14-15
Mt. 28:18-20
and John 17:15-19

EACH of these apply directly to and ONLY to the Apostles and through them our Pope and Bishops.

Be still and KNOW:thumbsup: Permit the Holy Spirt to GUIDE YOU.

KEEP asking questions!

Like God; we ARE on your side:angel1:

You do well in listening to God calling YOU HOME. BUT don’t stop with the CALL; HEAR the entire message. Because my friend that IS what God would have you do. AMEN.

God BLESS YOU

 

[marie0129]

Thanks! <3 I know God is in charge and ultimately I live by that. I am just itching to be a part of everything!!!

 

[PJM]

=marie0129;10610254]Thanks! <3 I know God is in charge and ultimately I live by that. I am just itching to be a part of everything!!!

AWESOME:thumbsup:

So what’s Q #3?

 

[Honour]

I totally understand where you are coming from. Each RCIA is different and you want yours to be good. I’ve been a part of three different classes at different churches, and my last was the worst. I was the same way, in the process of conversion for a long time and the leader simply couldn’t get our stories straight, she couldn’t care less about us or our progress. It was very disheartening, and she even tried to block the baptism of my first child due to my “lack of knowledge and desire”. Anyway I just learned to live with it and hopefully this year will be my year! And hopefully my new leaders will be better. But what I’ve realized that I want to help out with RCIA in anyway I can, start small bringing food, cleaning up, being another person to listen and get to know the candidates and catechumens. Lots of times they know someone else in the church fiancé, family or friends, but for some RCIA is the only connection they have, and I want to make sure that those people feel welcomed and like there is someone there to help. I figure it will also help me continue my studies and stay involved in the church.

 

[PJM]

Your OFFER is exactly what Charity is meant to be. Freely given with love and concern for others.

THANK you so very much!

God’s continued Blessings,

Pat /PJM here on CAF

 

[manualman]

Stick with it. Catholicism is filled with wacky characters, which is GOOD. If you find a religion populated entirely with people who think exactly like you do, it’s probably a cult…

We get all sorts and some goofballs even end up teaching. Sorry about that. Just keep in mind that the faith is not what Sister Moonbeam or Fr. RoadRage says that it is, it is what Scripture and Tradition say that it is. So supplement what they tell you with sources you know are vetted and approved by at least a bishop. An awesome start is “Catholicism for Dummies.” (NOT the “Idiot’s Guide”) Don’t be put off by the name, it’s concise and clear and reliable in plain English. Awesome stuff.

 

[houseofsaul]

I totally understand where you are coming from. Each RCIA is different and you want yours to be good. I’ve been a part of three different classes at different churches, and my last was the worst. I was the same way, in the process of conversion for a long time and the leader simply couldn’t get our stories straight, she couldn’t care less about us or our progress. It was very disheartening, and she even tried to block the baptism of my first child due to my “lack of knowledge and desire”. Anyway I just learned to live with it and hopefully this year will be my year! And hopefully my new leaders will be better. But what I’ve realized that I want to help out with RCIA in anyway I can, start small bringing food, cleaning up, being another person to listen and get to know the candidates and catechumens. Lots of times they know someone else in the church fiancé, family or friends, but for some RCIA is the only connection they have, and I want to make sure that those people feel welcomed and like there is someone there to help. I figure it will also help me continue my studies and stay involved in the church.

Wow I thought I was the only one who had made 3 attempts…I too not happy with the RCIA …its like just show up, listen, in exactly 90 minutes leave, attend all mandatory dates, confirmed, the end. No one was excited about the faith and to me less than reverent.