I wrote this quite a while ago - I am thinking that it might be useful to you.
** What sort of things should I look for in a RCIA class?**
Step 1: As far as possible, try not to be a connoisseur, but rather, a student.
Step 2: Having become determined to be a student, realize that a student of the Catholic Faith has certain rights.
These rights include:
- The right to be taught what the Church teaches, without too many incursions of the teacher’s personal opinions.
- The right to have your initial questions answered in a thorough and timely way.
- The right to receive the Rites of Initiation in an orderly and focused manner; these include the Rite of Acceptance/Welcome at the beginning of RCIA Catechesis, the Rite of Election/Call to Full Communion at the beginning of the Period of Purification, and the First Sacraments on the Easter Vigil.
- The right to a full and complete RCIA process, including all four Periods: Inquiry, Catechesis, Purification, and Mystagogia.
- The right not to rush through the four periods of RCIA in six months or less, as though we were in a race of some kind. (The Vatican actually recommends that RCIA take at least two years, with at least one full year being focused on Catechesis.)
- Going along with 5, the right to pace your formation in the Catholic faith according to your own ability to assimilate it into your life, and to conform your life to the expectations of a Catholic life style at your own pace.
- You have the right to have a sponsor. Some parishes prefer that you find your own sponsor, while others prefer to assign someone to you. Ask about this.
Of course, RCIA leadership teams are made up of human beings, so you will not find a “perfect” RCIA anywhere (and your leaders are going to disappoint you from time to time: this I can guarantee. I also guarantee, though, that they aren’t setting out to do that on purpose.) This leads us to
Step 3: Having found an RCIA that at least mostly respects your rights as a student of the faith, forgive your sponsor, teachers and priests for the crazy things they will sometimes say and do.
Step 4: Pay attention, have excellent attendance, and ask lots of good questions. Also do the assigned reading, and take lots of notes. Take the initiative in class - don’t wait to be spoon-fed everything.
Step 5: Also keep a journal - this is a fantastic time in your life, and you will want to keep a journal of it to look back on, later in life.
Step 6: Also keep a scrapbook everything that has your name on it - bulletin inserts, name tags, etc., and the order of service from all of your special services, such as the Rite of Election/Call to Full Communion. If you can, get someone to take pictures of you with the Bishop at the Call to Full Communion, and also get them to take a picture of you and your sponsor with the priest who brings you into the Church on the Easter Vigil.