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James_Miller
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I can’t find this treated in all my studies. What is the Church’s position on opening and
reading another person’s private mail?
reading another person’s private mail?
I don’t know that the position of this specific situation has been addressed, but I believe that given the circumstances surrounding the act it certainly could be viewed as a venial sin if not a mortal one.I can’t find this treated in all my studies. What is the Church’s position on opening and
reading another person’s private mail?
Hm. I open my husband’s mail all of the time. Mostly because if I don’t do it then it will never be read.In my year in CAF this has come up a couple of times. I’ll just repeat the answer I gave on the previous occassions.
I recall reading in a fairly authorative book, with imprimatur, that, in general, it is a sin to open other people’s mail. An exception was granted in the case of a wife opening mail to her husband from a woman whom she suspects of attempting to steal his affection.
I have been unable to locate the book I read this in, but I am quite sure my memory is correct.
Apply it to modern day technology and relationships as you will.
This. I think it’s contextual. I stay at home and manage the house. When my husband gets credit card offers, I just toss them. I open donation requests addressed to him because I generally am the one to handle the charity budget. I would never open a letter addressed to him by his parents or grandmother or a friend, though.Hm. I open my husband’s mail all of the time. Mostly because if I don’t do it then it will never be read.But only business-related letters, bank statements, things like that - since they usually affect both of us even if they are only addressed to him. I don’t open cards or letters that are obviously personal, though.