I wonder how many of you run into real anti-Catholicism in your day to day lives. It’s easy to see in chat rooms and on message boards such as CARM. I’m not talking about internet fundamentalists here, I mean people you know or meet in the real world.
I run into lots of people who are completely ignorant of what the Church teaches and why, but only once or twice have I gotten the “silent treatment” after I told someone I was Catholic.
So what about it? Do you encounter real anti-Catholicism in your day to day life? If so, what do you do about it?
Other than subtleties, I don’t see that much (other than general anti-Christian stuff). I do get questions from some folks at work (esp. e.g., Ash Wednesday when they see my forehead) that show misconceptions, but that doesn’t count so much.
Every now and again, I will run into people who have been scandalized by the news of “pedophile priests” and feel obliged to voice their opinion…but I think, in those cases, if I heard only what was in the news media, I would likely think the same thing myself. So I pull out some stats that I have in my head and that generally shuts them up (relative statistics between priests, protestant pastors, school teachers, etc., are very revealing)
The biggest example I’ve seen were from my inlaws when they found that their daughter converted. They were utterly scandalized…(they go to a restorationist-type group…those are generally the most virulent out of the batch). But then they started looking into it and now actually defend their daughter’s beliefs to others in their group…and, the last time I visited, I found that my mother-in-law was reading a book about the other books of the Bible (i.e., the deuteros). One big thing that changed their attitudes was when they actually sat through a Mass at the National Shrine in DC with us. You know the big mosaic of Jesus at the Revelation in the wall behind the altar? My father-in-law was moved to tears. He said that when he had a near death experience years ago, he said that when he saw Jesus, Jesus looked exactly like that image (his claim, not mine).
But the thing is that I don’t hang around with a bunch of highly-religious protestants for my social life, so I wouldn’t expect to see it, either.