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If any of you were reading the Catholic living forum about a month ago, you would know that I have been dating a Protestant minister’s daughter for a long while now.
Now, she is the highest caliber of woman, that I am certain. We “broke up” about a month ago. I use quotations because nothing really changed in our relationship - it seems it was just to keep her dad happy. (Who she has trouble standing up to, to say the least.) He had been pressuring her for a while.
I talked with her dad today. I just wanted to hear it from him. He basicly said, to keep this short, that he thinks I am a great person and he could not choose a better suitor for his daughter - except that the Catholic Church teaches a “different” gospel, one which is wrong. He had a LaHaye feel to him at points, in the sense that “I do feel there are Catholics going to Heaven, the ones who understand that salvations is only through faith, and not works, but just choose to stay with the church for whatever reason.”
I didn’t respond, I had expected as much. However, we planned to discuss the “issues” at length next week.
With that said, my question is, what can I say to such a brick wall? I feel confident since I have the Truth behind me, but how should I approach it?
If any of you are “battle hardened” in this, how do you usually start out? “Where did we get the Bible?”, “How are you saved?”.How do you usually talk to people?
Here is his church webpage if ya’ll wanna check out his beliefs.
caryalliance.org/
Maybe I just need some advice, if anyone has life experience and how to deal with this.
Adam
Now, she is the highest caliber of woman, that I am certain. We “broke up” about a month ago. I use quotations because nothing really changed in our relationship - it seems it was just to keep her dad happy. (Who she has trouble standing up to, to say the least.) He had been pressuring her for a while.
I talked with her dad today. I just wanted to hear it from him. He basicly said, to keep this short, that he thinks I am a great person and he could not choose a better suitor for his daughter - except that the Catholic Church teaches a “different” gospel, one which is wrong. He had a LaHaye feel to him at points, in the sense that “I do feel there are Catholics going to Heaven, the ones who understand that salvations is only through faith, and not works, but just choose to stay with the church for whatever reason.”
I didn’t respond, I had expected as much. However, we planned to discuss the “issues” at length next week.
With that said, my question is, what can I say to such a brick wall? I feel confident since I have the Truth behind me, but how should I approach it?
If any of you are “battle hardened” in this, how do you usually start out? “Where did we get the Bible?”, “How are you saved?”.How do you usually talk to people?
Here is his church webpage if ya’ll wanna check out his beliefs.
caryalliance.org/
Maybe I just need some advice, if anyone has life experience and how to deal with this.
Adam