Receiving a blessing instead of communion

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Hmmm. I can see that I was wrong. I had seen other people receive blessings instead of communion. I assumed that it was something which had Church approval. I am not on the CDWDS mailing list. How can I prevent making future errors?
 
Everyone brings out the documents to tell people what they can’t do. What is traditional when one can’t receive the Blessed Sacrament for whatever reason (non-Catholic, in need of confession, not properly disposed, etc.) is for one to stay in the pew and say an Act of Spiritual Communion. Properly and sincerely said, it can be more profound than any blessing.

Here is one form of the Act of Spiritual Communion:

My Jesus,
I believe that You
are present in the Most Holy Sacrament.
I love You above all things,
and I desire to receive You into my soul.
Since I cannot at this moment
receive You sacramentally,
come at least spiritually into my heart.
I embrace You as if You were already there
and unite myself wholly to You.
Never permit me to be separated from You.
Amen.
 
Quote:
  1. The liturgical blessing of the Holy Mass is properly given to each and to all at the conclusion of the Mass, just a few moments subsequent to the distribution of Holy Communion.
  2. Lay people, within the context of Holy Mass, are unable to confer blessings. These blessings, rather, are the competence of the priest (cf. Ecclesia de Mysterio, Notitiae 34 (15 Aug. 1997), art. 6, § 2; Canon 1169, § 2; and Roman Ritual De Benedictionibus (1985), n. 18).
  3. Furthermore, the laying on of a hand or hands — which has its own sacramental significance, inappropriate here — by those distributing Holy Communion, in substitution for its reception, is to be explicitly discouraged.
  4. The Apostolic Exhortation Familiaris Consortio n. 84, “forbids any pastor, for whatever reason to pretext even of a pastoral nature, to perform ceremonies of any kind for divorced people who remarry”. To be feared is that any form of blessing in substitution for communion would give the impression that the divorced and remarried have been returned, in some sense, to the status of Catholics in good standing.
  5. In a similar way, for others who are not to be admitted to Holy Communion in accord with the norm of law, the Church’s discipline has already made clear that they should not approach Holy Communion nor receive a blessing. This would include non-Catholics and those envisaged in can. 915 (i.e., those under the penalty of excommunication or interdict, and others who obstinately persist in manifest grave sin).
I am quite irritated to realize that several months later, after I took this post quite to heart, that it was given grossly out of context.

I know this is way after the fact, but for anyone who is interested, here is the full story, or at least one version or it.

ewtn.com/library/liturgy/zlitur263.htm
I guess this is a lesson that it pays to read more into something when it bothers you.
 
I am quite irritated to realize that several months later, after I took this post quite to heart, that it was given grossly out of context.

I know this is way after the fact, but for anyone who is interested, here is the full story, or at least one version or it.

ewtn.com/library/liturgy/zlitur263.htm
I guess this is a lesson that it pays to read more into something when it bothers you.
benedictgal wasn’t the only one who wrote in this thread. The blessing is given at the end of Mass. Communion is for receiving Our Lord in the most Holy Eucharist, not to bless people who are too embarrassed to remain in their pews. As a sinner I would be too embarrassed to approach the altar! But if your parish does it what’s the problem? some folks might feel very passionate about it and are sticklers for keeping these sort of things out of Mass. But when it comes to going against what the priest allows it’s another thing. You can talk and carry on about rules and rubrics and the such, but there are a lot of parishes that do this; and hardly anything you can do about it. On the other hand be warned there are parishes that don’t do this; and it can be just as embarrassing if not more so to approach for a blessing and be denied it.
 
Even a priest cannot do this within the context of the Mass. This is what the CDWDS specifically states on the matter:

No one has the authority, not even the celebrant, to invent a rite and imbed it within the Mass. When I last spoke to the a few months ago, I was told that this should not be happening. We form a line to receive Someone, Jesus in Holy Communion, not something, a blessing, which will be given to everyone at its proper time, at the final blessing.
Do you have a link to the document cited?
 
Even a priest cannot do this within the context of the Mass. This is what the CDWDS specifically states on the matter:

No one has the authority, not even the celebrant, to invent a rite and imbed it within the Mass. When I last spoke to the a few months ago, I was told that this should not be happening. We form a line to receive Someone, Jesus in Holy Communion, not something, a blessing, which will be given to everyone at its proper time, at the final blessing.
Since I have seen my ordinary bless those in the communion line, perhaps I should chastise him for this practice…NOT. He sets the nom, I will follow his example.
 
This is all confusing to me. I’m in RCIA and go to two parishes. I always go up to get a blessing. I thought since everyone else is going to for the Host I am allowed to go up to get a blessing. At least the four parishes I’ve been to, I’ve gone up and got a blessing. Before I started I asked specifically more than once if it was OK to do that. I was told over and over - it’s OK to go up and get a blessing.
 
This is all confusing to me. I’m in RCIA and go to two parishes. I always go up to get a blessing. I thought since everyone else is going to for the Host I am allowed to go up to get a blessing. At least the four parishes I’ve been to, I’ve gone up and got a blessing. Before I started I asked specifically more than once if it was OK to do that. I was told over and over - it’s OK to go up and get a blessing.
Actually if you are in RCIA, you should be dismissed after the homily with a catichist or sponsor to continue to break open the word. But if you are staying through out mass, don’t be confuses.

It is the ordinary (bishop) for your diocese, who has the direct authority to interpet and teach Church doctrine. The preist and decons follow him. Unlike what many on this blog want to project, they are not answerable to Rome except through the ordinary. Also Rome does not oporate inside some kind of bubble. The magisterium which is often mentioned is made up of the world bishops. As with any organizations, they may be more conservative or liberal depending on personality and theology.

Since it sounds like your ordinary has no objections to blessings being given in the communion line, then no worries, your not doing anything wrong.

I would be courious as to why you attaned so many parishes. It woulf be best if you picked one and completed your formation. In any event, welcome home.
 
Since I have seen my ordinary bless those in the communion line, perhaps I should chastise him for this practice…NOT. He sets the nom, I will follow his example.
Not when the Vatican speaks otherwise.
 
I would be courious as to why you attaned so many parishes. It woulf be best if you picked one and completed your formation. In any event, welcome home.
I’m in RCIA at the local small parish. It’s RCIA is only nine months. But I like going to another parish church fifteen minutes away which is very large with a large congregation. But their RCIA is two years. I do try to go to Mass at the small church but it’s so small. I’m not sure what you call them, but it’s the person who stands up and welcomes all and tells people to turn off their cell phones, and what the first hymn will be. The big church always have great singers in that position. The small church has a nice lady but she’s no match for the ladies from the big church.

When I go to the small parish (usually on Saturday) I’m never taken to some other room. Since I’m not RCIA at the big church I’m not taken away during the Mass either.

I hope this does not disqualify me from joining. I’ve taken my notebook and write a bunch of notes at RCIA class.
 
I’m in RCIA at the local small parish. It’s RCIA is only nine months. But I like going to another parish church fifteen minutes away which is very large with a large congregation. But their RCIA is two years. I do try to go to Mass at the small church but it’s so small. I’m not sure what you call them, but it’s the person who stands up and welcomes all and tells people to turn off their cell phones, and what the first hymn will be. The big church always have great singers in that position. The small church has a nice lady but she’s no match for the ladies from the big church.

When I go to the small parish (usually on Saturday) I’m never taken to some other room. Since I’m not RCIA at the big church I’m not taken away during the Mass either.

I hope this does not disqualify me from joining. I’ve taken my notebook and write a bunch of notes at RCIA class.
No, this shouldn’t disqualify you in any way. I’m happy for you & admire the way your taking RCIA so serious.

God bless you and aid you in this journey!
 
Not when the Vatican speaks otherwise.
The Vatican has not official spoken on this matter. The previous post was from a letter sent asking for an opinion, the response, despite what some want to think, does not carry with it, the weight of Canon Law. Even in the event it was, the local ordinary as spelled out in the cannon, can give dispensation on any part of the cannon for pastoral reasons as he sees fit for his area.
 
I’m in RCIA at the local small parish. It’s RCIA is only nine months. But I like going to another parish church fifteen minutes away which is very large with a large congregation. But their RCIA is two years. I do try to go to Mass at the small church but it’s so small. I’m not sure what you call them, but it’s the person who stands up and welcomes all and tells people to turn off their cell phones, and what the first hymn will be. The big church always have great singers in that position. The small church has a nice lady but she’s no match for the ladies from the big church.

When I go to the small parish (usually on Saturday) I’m never taken to some other room. Since I’m not RCIA at the big church I’m not taken away during the Mass either.

I hope this does not disqualify me from joining. I’ve taken my notebook and write a bunch of notes at RCIA class.
No, it doesn’t disqualify you. Blessings on you journey to more fully know our lord and savior.
 
With the Pope as their head.
The Magisterium is a collegiate order as spelled out in the Second Vatican Council. Yes it is true that the pope is the head and has final authority on matters of morals and doctrine. But he does not work in isolation. The various councils of bishops in each county give him information and feedback. The Church operates on the premise that decisions be made on the closets possible level of authority to the issues. Local decisions made locally. This is one of those decisions.
 
This is all confusing to me. I’m in RCIA and go to two parishes. I always go up to get a blessing. I thought since everyone else is going to for the Host I am allowed to go up to get a blessing. At least the four parishes I’ve been to, I’ve gone up and got a blessing. Before I started I asked specifically more than once if it was OK to do that. I was told over and over - it’s OK to go up and get a blessing.
Same here. We asked during our RCIA class if this was okay because after reading this thread I didn’t want to do something that wasn’t right to do.
Both my husband and I were very much encouraged to go up for a blessing. That they encourage everyone to participate.

We are a small parish though. The next closest Catholic church is 45 miles away ( not kidding). We’ve had several of them close due to lack of attendance so they’ve had to consolodate. Could it be that they do this to have those who are new feel welcomed? I don’t know. I know it makes me feel very welcomed, though I didn’t go for a blessing until today. Growing up as a child we were always told you couldn’t go up for Communion unless you were Catholic. So I never went up.
 
I don’t understand why you would want to receive a blessing though. It’s the distribution of Communion, not distribution of blessings. You are blessed at the end of Mass. Simply make an act of Spiritual Communion.

And, EMHCs cannot give blessings (they are not ordained, nor do they act for the Church), so unless you are going to the priest, then you are just getting some layman (typically a laywoman) waving their arms over you.
 
I know personally I don’t mind standing back and waiting until I recieve communion. That doesn’t bother me at all.

As we were told only the priest or deacon can administer blessings. No one else.

I’m not sure but maybe there are parishes that like when everyone participates. I don’t know. I guess I could ask again as to why the practice is done. It seems as if our church likes it when everyone participates in some fashion during communion.

I remember growing up as a child hearing others from the Protestant faiths put down Catholic churches because they don’t allow everyone to participate during Communion that its supposed to be something God intended for everyone to participate in. I remember people leaving the Catholic church because they felt the same way. Maybe its a way to ‘meet part way’ to keep people from leaving the faith. I don’t know?
 
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