GREAT Question! Thanks
The foundational issue is understanding that GOD IS IN CHARGE, even when we may wish when He was not.
So everything that happens, has one of two reasons:
- So God can be Glorified
- So God COULD be glorified and WE Could be sacticifoed
Everything that takes place either GOD Ordained [ordered], or God permitted to PERMIT one of the two end results
It is also to be understood that God can CAUSE ONLY good things
Isa.55: 6 to 9
[6] "Seek the LORD while he may be found,
call upon him while he is near;
[7] let the wicked forsake his way,
and the unrighteous man his thoughts;
let him return to the LORD, that he may have mercy on him,
and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
[8] For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways, says the LORD.
[9] For as the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts.
So suffering is the NORMAL condition of humanity:: Isa. 43: 7 & 21 “[7] every one who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.” &
[21] the people whom I formed for myself that THEY MIGHT declare my praise.
Choosing good or evil is ALWAYS our personal choice
humanity ALONE is God-gifted with a mind, intellect and freewill precisely so that we CAN make GOOD choices or BAD choices.
Suffering makes that choice very evident. If as you wisely indicate.
If God builds for us a cross of suffering [which BTW I too am enduring], we CAN freely choose by His GRACE to accept it and offer it up; if we just just grump and complain about it making others as miserable as awe are; but nether lessens the suffering.
If we choose the GOOD, God is Glorified AND we ARE sactified
If we choose only grump; God is STILL GLORIFIED for having given us the grace opportunity; BUT we lose the grace opportunity and the stratification
So we ought to OFFER it up, for ourselves OR for others including the POOR SOULS
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God Bless you friend
Patrick
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