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I’ve been told that one’s humble acceptance of suffering can be a source of grace, and that we can ask God to give that grace to others instead of ourselves. Is that correct?
I have heard about victim souls who accept their suffering and offer it up for others. I can’t imagine God not giving grace to the victim soul for doing this. It seems right that they would benefit from such an act of unselfishness. even though they are not seeking the grace for themselves.I’ve been told that one’s humble acceptance of suffering can be a source of grace, and that we can ask God to give that grace to others instead of ourselves. Is that correct?
I can definitely understand that… how often are our prayers pretty superficial until something terrible or tragic occurs that helps us put our hearts into it? Whereas with suffering, it’s pretty difficult to keep our hearts out if it.…sufferings borne with patience can save more souls than prayer (but prayer helps us to bear our sufferings).
and another segment about the relative values of different types of sufferings-- suffering alone vs. when you have others to help:He next considers the practices of devotion which she saw proposes, especially that of uniting all our actions, however trifling, to those of Our Divine Lord: “Oh, the bargain!” he exclaims; “would he not be considered a fool who would not give a piece of copper for a heap of gold, or a flint for a pearl?” Thus are all our good actions turned to immense account, and become of great value to us, inasmuch as by our intention of uniting them with the oblation of Christ, they become part and parcel of His merits. Further, if we do all this not merely for ourselves but for others, and above all for Holy Church, our gain is increased, God is more glorified and the Church is strengthened and supported: “for all property, the more common it becomes, the more heavenly it becomes” - words surely worth noting and treasuring in every stage of our spiritual life.
Gertrude received another plain testimony, although she did not understand it very well at first, that contradictions and privation of consolation in suffering greatly increase merit. On a certain day, about the Feast of Pentecost, as she suffered such severe pain in her side that those who were present feared her last hour had arrived, her Beloved, the true Consoler of her soul, retired from her, and this increased her suffering, although the cares and attentions of those who surrounded her were redoubled; whereas, when she was less carefully attended, this loving Lord remained near her, to solace the severity of her pain by His presence, thus making her understand, that when we are deprived of human consolation, the Divine Mercy regards us most favorably.
Regarding whether or not you profit when you offer your sufferings and graces for someone else, from when St. Gertrude interceded for one soul in Purgatory:Towards evening, as the Saint was worn out by acute suffering, she sought to obtain some mitigation of it from Our Lord, but He raised His right arm, and showed her the pain she had endured all day as a precious ornament on His bosom. As this ornament appeared so perfect and so complete in every part, she rejoiced, hoping that her suffering would now cease; but Our Lord replied: What you suffer after this will add brightness to this ornament. And certainly, although it was garnished with precious stones, the gold appeared dark and dull. What she suffered afterwards was not so grievous in itself, but she was more tried by being deprived of consolation, than by the acuteness of the pain.
Then the soul besought Our Lord, by the love which had brought Him down from Heaven to die upon the Cross, that He would apply these remedies to his soul, and reward those who prayed for him abundantly; and Our Lord appeared to take a piece of gold from him, and lay it by to recompense those who had assisted him by their prayers.