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DiZent
Guest
I have been the VBC director at my parish for 7 years. Before that, I had volunteered - taking a week off work so that my grandchildren could attend. Then there was a change of personnel/leadership in the office & we didn’t have it for 3 years - I volunteered at 2 other parishes & did a “home school” version for my grandchildren during those years, then stepped up & volunteered to be the director and bring it back to my parish. We used Growing With the Saints - have purchased all 6 programs & recycled Vatican Express in 2019. We kept the registration fees low, with incentives (free t-shirt for early registration) & extras were extra, but free for children/grandchildren of volunteers. It has been successful, with modest growth - we usually had between 30-40 children attend, with 15-20 youth volunteers & 15-20 adult volunteers. Fast forward to another change in personnel/leadership at the office. Youth Minister took over the youth volunteers - was great in some ways, but chaotic in others. Overall, the feedback was very positive. Now, the Youth Minister wants to make changes. Some of the things she wants are very good - she will take over the registrations, money & incentives - but some of the other things she has proposed are not negotiable for me. She wants to use a different program - a Protestant one - says GWTS is too hard for the younger ones & the Protestant programs are “more fun” (They are fun & the Bible is a Catholic book - but you really have to look at what it teaches - does it teach OSAS, sola scirptura, sold fide - and they are NOT “more fun” than GWTS). And I have consistently held it the last week of July - now she may want to change the week. So I am being pushed aside. Part of me says OK, I have had my time, did a good job & now it is time to move on. But I would like to keep the GWTS program for 2020 & work together with her, then exit gracefully, without hurt feelings.