Being spiritual is simply answering the call.
The first disciples were called, they were fishing and Jesus said “come follow me”
Than He saw James and John, they were in a boat with thier father and Jesus called out to them.
Than He saw Matthew sitting in a customs post and Jesus said to him “follow me”
Than look at John when Jesus walked by and all He said was “Behold the Lamb of God” and they followed Him.
So in short I hope that we all try to answer Jesus when He asks us to follow Him. I do my best, I try to get to daily Mass, I try to stop in the Chapel to say hello to Jesus either for an hour or just to say “hello” every day. I offer up all my sufferings (whether it be a paper cut, a stubbed toe or a aching back) to the souls in purgatory. I pray and offer thanks to God all day long for everything that I am capable of doing or being (I thank God that I can stand up, sit down, do laundry using two hands, 10 fingers, gardening etc) I light blessed candles for whoever pops into my head. I know that the things I do can not compare to what the Lord wants me to do. I’m nothing but a lowly servant doing my best to get to Heaven and I would really love to take others with me!
As far as being religious goes. I’m not sure.
I love my Church and all that She stands for. I don’t believe that anyone has the right to alter anything that is set by the Magesterium. I don’t memorize rote prayers besides the usual ones. I drink socially and have fun with my friends. I love to laugh and to smile because it feels good. I love hugs cause I can feel your warmth or your coldness
I love going to Mass, especially when the Priest says a few of the prayers in Latin. I think latin is such a beautiful language. I wish all priests would at least give us an Agnus Dei.