Responding to Mormon Missionaries

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Yesterday I was at a 9/11 remembrance event with the College Republicans on campus, and after the memorial event some Mormon missionaries helped us put the flags away and get things picked up. They were very polite, but one of them offered me a card with a website on it. I believe it was wrong of me to take the card, but I didn’t want to be rude and I was afraid to say no. Has anyone been in a situation like this where people from other religions try to give you stuff and you don’t know what to say or are afraid to say something? What is a good way to respond politely to them?
 
Say “No thank you” and politely move on. It’s that simple. Please avoid any talk about the two religions. If you do, answer “I do not know” to questions that you do not know. These missionaries probably know more than you probably do. Be on guard. Saying “no” in this situation cannot be sinful unless you act unchristian.

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Yesterday I was at a 9/11 remembrance event with the College Republicans on campus, and after the memorial event some Mormon missionaries helped us put the flags away and get things picked up. They were very polite, but one of them offered me a card with a website on it. I believe it was wrong of me to take the card, but I didn’t want to be rude and I was afraid to say no. Has anyone been in a situation like this where people from other religions try to give you stuff and you don’t know what to say or are afraid to say something? What is a good way to respond politely to them?
Hello Will, perhaps you can find a simple useful card of your own to keep on hand. to hand to them in return with thanks for theirs, mentioning that you are a Christian of the Apostolic tradition.:):thumbsup:God bless you. Carlan.
 
take the card and throw it away when they leave i do that with scientologists who hang aroud where I live.
 
You could do what my roommate do with all the peopel who hand stuff out around our apartment complex. We save it for winter, and then burn it for heat. It’s extra warm. 😃 Otherwise, I say “no thank you, I’m Catholic, the original Church”. And she says “this will do nicely for the pagan sacrifice tonight”. No wonder why they aren’t coming around anymore. 😃
 
take the card and throw it away when they leave i do that with scientologists who hang aroud where I live.
I actually ended up doing that, but I felt bad even taking it (as if I was denying Christ). I think I should carry around cards of my own to hand to people in return.
 
I actually ended up doing that, but I felt bad even taking it (as if I was denying Christ). I think I should carry around cards of my own to hand to people in return.
That’s good. If they offer you something, you can offer them something. If they won’t accept it, they really aren’t interested in truth and their offer is trash just like their intentions, so don’t feel bad about refusing it.

Things you can offer: prayer cards with the Nicene Creed, or any Catholic Answers pamphlet. You can often get these in the entry hall of your local Catholic Church, particularly college branches. Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth is particularly good. Just having one or two in your bookbag or pocket should suffice, unless you get bombarded frequently 🙂
 
That’s good. If they offer you something, you can offer them something. If they won’t accept it, they really aren’t interested in truth and their offer is trash just like their intentions, so don’t feel bad about refusing it.

Things you can offer: prayer cards with the Nicene Creed, or any Catholic Answers pamphlet. You can often get these in the entry hall of your local Catholic Church, particularly college branches. Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth is particularly good. Just having one or two in your bookbag or pocket should suffice, unless you get bombarded frequently 🙂
I’m wondering if I should offer them a Catholic Pamphlet and refuse their information, or if we should just exchange information. I’m not going to convert to their religeon, but I was just wondering what a polite response would be.

Also, someone today offered me a Gideon New Testament with Psalms and Proverbs on my way into class. I don’t know if he was Mormon, but he was giving them away for free to people and offered me one. I didn’t have any Catholic information on me at the time. I guess that means I should get some information from the local Cathedral.
 
I’m wondering if I should offer them a Catholic Pamphlet and refuse their information, or if we should just exchange information. I’m not going to convert to their religeon, but I was just wondering what a polite response would be.
Offer them a Catholic pamphlet as an exchange–you’ll take and read theirs IF they’ll take and read yours. Glance back after you leave to see if they pocket or throw away what you’ve given them. If they keep it, there’s little harm in keeping and reading yours, so long as you maintain faith and seek guidance directly from God AND His teaching authority on earth (the Catholic Church) for anything that you do not understand or find troublesome or confusing. It is good to know what others are saying, for if taken properly, it can advance the cause of evangelization.

Even better, if you’re up to it AND the person you’re passing it out to is a peer (someone of about the same age, not someone who is going to try to use age or position to create a teacher-student situation), you might offer a way of contacting you if they would like to discuss the pamphlet you give them further–like your school email address. Something safe to give out.

I would suggest talking with your local priest to get a local contact to direct other people to. Have your school email written on some of the pamphlets you keep handy (IF you’re confident and up to it), and this other local contact info on the other pamphlets. Just keeping 1 of each handy would probably be plenty 🙂
Also, someone today offered me a Gideon New Testament with Psalms and Proverbs on my way into class. I don’t know if he was Mormon, but he was giving them away for free to people and offered me one. I didn’t have any Catholic information on me at the time. I guess that means I should get some information from the local Cathedral.
I would suggest not taking anything unless you have something to give and they accept what you give. The Gideon NT w/Psalms and Proverbs is not Mormon. The Gideons are a Protestant/Pentecostal group that mainly publishes a version of the Bible and distributes it (in person and in hotel rooms) in an effort just to spread the Bible. It’s not a Catholic-authorized translation, but it’s not particularly troublesome.

I still keep the Gideon NT w/Psalms and Proverbs that I received in similar fashion in college. It’s in my car, and my wife and I read a Proverb every day on the way to work. It was a free way to get a handy, pocket-sized text to keep around, and I don’t think the Gideons would begrudge our acceptance of it because we do use it to continue our study of the Word–still within a Catholic context, of course.

Oh, and you probably don’t need to go to the local cathedral. Most Catholic churches of decent size have good pamphlets you could use. If you talk to the pastor, you can probably arrange a continuing supply for you to have ready to exchange on campus. You’d be using them for just the purpose intended when they’re put out on in the church entry, after all–to evangelize and catechize believers and non-believers alike. And your target audience (college students) are in particular need of this, so you’d be doing the Lord’s work, charged to all of us in the Great Commission. God bless your efforts!
 
Yesterday I was at a 9/11 remembrance event with the College Republicans on campus, and after the memorial event some Mormon missionaries helped us put the flags away and get things picked up. They were very polite, but one of them offered me a card with a website on it. I believe it was wrong of me to take the card, but I didn’t want to be rude and I was afraid to say no. Has anyone been in a situation like this where people from other religions try to give you stuff and you don’t know what to say or are afraid to say something? What is a good way to respond politely to them?
Yes, “No thank you.” works perfectly fine. You might have to repeat it more than once.
 
Offer them a Catholic pamphlet as an exchange–you’ll take and read theirs IF they’ll take and read yours. Glance back after you leave to see if they pocket or throw away what you’ve given them. If they keep it, there’s little harm in keeping and reading yours, so long as you maintain faith and seek guidance directly from God AND His teaching authority on earth (the Catholic Church) for anything that you do not understand or find troublesome or confusing. It is good to know what others are saying, for if taken properly, it can advance the cause of evangelization.

Even better, if you’re up to it AND the person you’re passing it out to is a peer (someone of about the same age, not someone who is going to try to use age or position to create a teacher-student situation), you might offer a way of contacting you if they would like to discuss the pamphlet you give them further–like your school email address. Something safe to give out.

I would suggest talking with your local priest to get a local contact to direct other people to. Have your school email written on some of the pamphlets you keep handy (IF you’re confident and up to it), and this other local contact info on the other pamphlets. Just keeping 1 of each handy would probably be plenty 🙂

I would suggest not taking anything unless you have something to give and they accept what you give. The Gideon NT w/Psalms and Proverbs is not Mormon. The Gideons are a Protestant/Pentecostal group that mainly publishes a version of the Bible and distributes it (in person and in hotel rooms) in an effort just to spread the Bible. It’s not a Catholic-authorized translation, but it’s not particularly troublesome.

I still keep the Gideon NT w/Psalms and Proverbs that I received in similar fashion in college. It’s in my car, and my wife and I read a Proverb every day on the way to work. It was a free way to get a handy, pocket-sized text to keep around, and I don’t think the Gideons would begrudge our acceptance of it because we do use it to continue our study of the Word–still within a Catholic context, of course.

Oh, and you probably don’t need to go to the local cathedral. Most Catholic churches of decent size have good pamphlets you could use. If you talk to the pastor, you can probably arrange a continuing supply for you to have ready to exchange on campus. You’d be using them for just the purpose intended when they’re put out on in the church entry, after all–to evangelize and catechize believers and non-believers alike. And your target audience (college students) are in particular need of this, so you’d be doing the Lord’s work, charged to all of us in the Great Commission. God bless your efforts!
The Cathedral is just a short walk from campus. There’s a Catholic Church about a block away from campus and the Cathedral is just about a mile or so from campus.
 
Yesterday I was at a 9/11 remembrance event with the College Republicans on campus, and after the memorial event some Mormon missionaries helped us put the flags away and get things picked up. They were very polite, but one of them offered me a card with a website on it. I believe it was wrong of me to take the card, but I didn’t want to be rude and I was afraid to say no. Has anyone been in a situation like this where people from other religions try to give you stuff and you don’t know what to say or are afraid to say something? What is a good way to respond politely to them?
Thanks but no thank you. I’m a practicing Catholic. At which point they will give it to you anyway. take it and discard it later.

Love and prayers,
 
Just be polite and act as Jesus would’ve acted in that kind of situation.
 
take the card and throw it away when they leave i do that with scientologists who hang aroud where I live.
HA, same. I went to college in DC, and when I would get off the bus near a metro stop that was near the Scientology building, one of them would always be milling around with cards or “The Way to Happiness”. I just don’t interact anymore. Sadly I saw a few people actually reading them.
 
I’m wondering if I should offer them a Catholic Pamphlet and refuse their information, or if we should just exchange information. I’m not going to convert to their religeon, but I was just wondering what a polite response would be.

Also, someone today offered me a Gideon New Testament with Psalms and Proverbs on my way into class. I don’t know if he was Mormon, but he was giving them away for free to people and offered me one. I didn’t have any Catholic information on me at the time. I guess that means I should get some information from the local Cathedral.
Yes, Cathedrals usually have nice pamphlets about various issues. Give them one of these if this happens. Mormon missionaries will usually take it, and sometimes they’ll say that they’ll read your information if you read theirs. Don’t give them a Nicene Creed card, since they’re automatically trained to disregard it and other creeds as an abomination.
 
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