RITE OF ACCEPTANCE SUNDAY------any others?

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Has anyone else (per chance) had their “Rite of Acceptance” Sunday Mass yet where they come before the entire congregation and declare their faith and desire to continue through to confirmation----ours was last Sunday and it was awesome!!! I got very emotional!!! BUT it was such an awesome step towards the direction God is leading me in–joining his One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church.

I’d like to hear from anyone who has experienced this service yet on their road to confirmation. How did it go for you? Did your current Parish have this particular thing on a given Sunday?

Blessings~~
 
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sparkle:
Has anyone else (per chance) had their “Rite of Acceptance” Sunday Mass yet where they come before the entire congregation and declare their faith and desire to continue through to confirmation----ours was last Sunday and it was awesome!!! I got very emotional!!! BUT it was such an awesome step towards the direction God is leading me in–joining his One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church.

I’d like to hear from anyone who has experienced this service yet on their road to confirmation. How did it go for you? Did your current Parish have this particular thing on a given Sunday?

Blessings~~
We are trying to have the Rite of Acceptance (for those who are not Baptized) 1 or 2 times a year. Our last one was in September. We also will hold the Rite of Welcome (for those who are Baptized) 2 or 3 times a year, again last held in September…
 
ya, we did it when i became catholic. it was cool.

i was more profoundly affected by the washing of the feet, which i just happened to be involved in, the day of my confirmation. it was very deeply moving.

i’m excited for you, sparkle, as you journey across the tiber and join us in the family of rome. 🙂

may God richly bless you.
 
we celebrated it Oct. 31, it was delayed from early Sept. by a lot of other stuff going on, should have been 14 children and youth and 2 adults, but only 5 kids showed up for the parent meetings and practice, so only 5 kids were there. We have delayed it to the beginning of the second year of preparation, because so many start the program and don’t finish. I was so proud of the kids, they made the responses loud and clear, all the catechists, sponsors and parents were there to do the signing, and this is the first year we have presented both bibles and crosses. Best of it is, our parish is getting educated about the whole RCIA process.
 
My husband and I along with other members of our RCIA celebrated our Rite of Welcoming in September. It was very deep and meaningful for us. We were joined by our sponsors (another
husband and wife) they each made the sign of the cross on
us as the father spoke the words of welcoming. We received the
sign of the cross on our hands,mouth,ears,shoulders and feet.
I hope I am not forgetting any other part. They also sang as
this was done. (my sponsor and I had to keep from looking
directly at each other for fear of crying!) After the ceremony
we all headed to the church hall for cake and were given crosses
and bibles. Like all good Catholics, we then took our families
out for brunch afterwards to continue the celebration!
It was a beautiful day!

Blessings!

I
 
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puzzleannie:
we celebrated it Oct. 31, it was delayed from early Sept. by a lot of other stuff going on, should have been 14 children and youth and 2 adults, but only 5 kids showed up for the parent meetings and practice, so only 5 kids were there. We have delayed it to the beginning of the second year of preparation, because so many start the program and don’t finish. I was so proud of the kids, they made the responses loud and clear, all the catechists, sponsors and parents were there to do the signing, and this is the first year we have presented both bibles and crosses. Best of it is, our parish is getting educated about the whole RCIA process.
I’m interested in something? Do you know why your group seems to ne a mirror image of the usual RCIA? (14 kids and 2 adults instead of 14 adults and 2 kids) Second, the Rite of Acceptance is supposed to be at the beginning, it is the Rite through which one becomes a Catechumen. I assume that you then have a year long “Inquiry”? Do you meet in different rooms by age group? If not how do you offer adults, adult level material, teens, teen level material and younger kids their level?
 
Hey my friend, Sparkle! Congrats on the blessed event for you. I am glad it was an awesome day.

Did anyone in your family attend also? I think you maybe mentioned once that your kids were in RCIA.
 
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Hey my friend, Sparkle! Congrats on the blessed event for you. I am glad it was an awesome day.
Did anyone in your family attend also? I think you maybe mentioned once that your kids were in RCIA.
Blessings to You Too My Friend JRABS:

Thanks for writing!

It was a totally awesome day for me, (presently in RCIA). No, I thought it would be just “announcing us to the congregation”…therefore I didn’t ask hubby or kids to come. Little did I know it would be soooo special, i.e., with the blessings on our entire body, etc. I was so choked up, it was sooooo awesome! I will of course invite them to all the Rites from here on in, from now to Easter Vigil.

I don’t quite know what to do about having a husband, who is a nominal Protestant, and kids the same. They attend a Protestant Church (11:00 a.m. Sundays)–just cuz they have friends there, and who knows if they get anything out of it or not. Hubby’s parents are the same way–they attend a church cuz their friends go----Only God knows if anything really touches their soul-- This makes me think how many Christians really do this? What a shame. Our Christian life can be so much more!!!As I’m finding out in RCIA. It has been such a blessing!!!

JRABS–I’m just waiting upon the Lord to lead me forward to see what to do with my family. I’m all alone here in my journey to the Catholic Church. I know one step at a time is all we should do. And God has blessed me so already in my involvement with RCIA.

I’m fasting and praying this Friday for the “conversion” of my spouse, along with some others on this forum. Do you want to join in? I will pray for you and your family too. Please tell me again–are you married? How many kids???

God Bless You Too JRABS! You’re so special!!!🙂
 
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, the Rite of Acceptance is supposed to be at the beginning, it is the Rite through which one becomes a Catechumen. I assume that you then have a year long “Inquiry”? Do you meet in different rooms by age group? If not how do you offer adults, adult level material, teens, teen level material and younger kids their level?
Yes, at least for children inquiry is year long. During Saturday am CCD we have 4 regular 2nd yr communion classes, 2 RCIA classes for children grades 3-8 (English and Spanish) for children, and RCIA in Spanish for adults. Jr. Hi is some overlap --True RCIA for youth grades 7-12 is during Wed. HS CCD, there are 14 in that class, 2 for baptism this year. Here confirmation is ag 16, so that is HS CCD basically, with post-confirmation classes open to all adults.

Sunday is RCIA/sacramental prep for adults in English. Confirmation well catechized adults is one (school year) or less for those able to accelerate the time spent on study. Only 2 adults for baptism, both just starting catechumenate. 8 Catholic adults for communion and/or confirmation, 2 non-catholics for full communion this year. We try to be flexible for adults, meeting their needs.

There is a lot of coming and going, starting and stopping, so we do not celebrate the Rite of Acceptance as a given until they really give evidence of wishing to progress and enter the catechumenate. There are so many dropouts especially with children after the first year that it does not make sense. From 1/3 to 1/2 of children and youth in CCD need sacraments, as they are from nominally Catholic families but sacraments are delayed for many reasons: recent immigrants, migrant worker families, military families, corporate transfers, and so many families in divorce/remarriage, civil marriage or living together situations with no commitment to Catholic values beyond cultural ties. We are really catechizing whole families with basically no Catholic background, so one year is not too long for inquiry period and initial evangelization.

RCIA/sacramental prep, especially on Sunday and the Spanish program is run as a family program, since if one child is not baptized, there is almost always other family members in need of sacraments. Deacon has joined RCIA team this year, so marriage convalidations and marriage issues, annulment etc. are handled much more expeditiously, and marriage theology taught much better now. BOW is 1/2 hour at the beginning of every CCD and RCIA class, break for snack, then rest of 2 hour period is instruction, by age groups.

Regular CCD texts used for children, Basic text for all adult classes are catechism and NAB plus RCIA sources from Ligouri called Journey of Faith/Camino de Fe, comes in English and Spanish for all age groups, with supplemental materials, and we are trying to standardize. Our guideline for covering “what must be taught” is Making Disciples from OSV, and RCIA ritual book from LTP.

I would like to have year-round RCIA (and CCD and adult ed) but people just do not come in the summer.

bottom line is – children who go through RCIA in 2 years or less almost never come back for mystagogy, or CCD, nor continue attending Mass, at least in this parish. Those children and youth who have at least a year inquiry have a much better “retention” rate.
 
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