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vlad_kaz
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Dear friends,
I was baptized in a Protestant church about 10 years ago. Then following years of reflection, prayer and reading, I decided to come to the Catholic Church, attend Catholic Mass and made a request to the local priest to officially join the Catholic Church.
My first communion being planned in January, I wanted to confess for the first time. I wish I had read the guidelines on the website of the Diocese of Paris before attending confession, because now I know I did not do any of the things that we listed there, such as starting with “Bless me father for I have sinned” (Well the French version), or reciting the Act of Contrition before the absolution formula. Even if I did recite the latter, it is because I asked the priest whether I could/should do it.
The priest did not criticize anything, he listened to my sins and offered me a penitence to perform, and of course said the prayer of absolution.
I will surely confess a second time before my communion, but I wanted to know whether my first confession counts as valid? Do other Catholic always follow the ritual/the exact formulas or I am just being a bit paranoid and obsessing with the instructions? What should I do for my next confession?
I would really appreciate your help,
Sincerely yours,
Vlad
I was baptized in a Protestant church about 10 years ago. Then following years of reflection, prayer and reading, I decided to come to the Catholic Church, attend Catholic Mass and made a request to the local priest to officially join the Catholic Church.
My first communion being planned in January, I wanted to confess for the first time. I wish I had read the guidelines on the website of the Diocese of Paris before attending confession, because now I know I did not do any of the things that we listed there, such as starting with “Bless me father for I have sinned” (Well the French version), or reciting the Act of Contrition before the absolution formula. Even if I did recite the latter, it is because I asked the priest whether I could/should do it.
The priest did not criticize anything, he listened to my sins and offered me a penitence to perform, and of course said the prayer of absolution.
I will surely confess a second time before my communion, but I wanted to know whether my first confession counts as valid? Do other Catholic always follow the ritual/the exact formulas or I am just being a bit paranoid and obsessing with the instructions? What should I do for my next confession?
I would really appreciate your help,
Sincerely yours,
Vlad