Scriptural support for anti-contraception

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My theological discussions with Protestants on this matter rarely involve the Bible. I speak purely out of the heart when I am chatting about contraception. I say that it is disgusting because it adds artificiality to God’s perfect and divine act. I say that it is sickening because lustful sex pollutes a marriage. I say that it is saddening because it means that love is not enough for that person to be happy in a marriage; that physicality should not be necessary in a loving relationship such as marriage.

To this, they say, “…so…” and proceed to point out that the Bible says nothing against it. I attempted to point out that section in Gensis where God killed a man for “spilling his semen” before intercourse, but the circumstances make it an admittedly weak arguement.

I read Humanus Vitae and other encyclicals and article on this site, but found little besides more ethical points of view.

So I was wondering if anyone has any (clear) scripture which I can add to my side of this debate. While ethics can be debated, the Bible is infalliable.

Thanks! 🙂
 
This may help, but most Protestants will side-step it for not being “clear” enough. One thing the site does do is better explain the situation you tried to describe to your friends.
 
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Chex:
I say that it is saddening because it means that love is not enough for that person to be happy in a marriage; that physicality should not be necessary in a loving relationship such as marriage.
Humans are physical. God created us good. Physical feelings are good too. Kids need hugs, cuddles, kisses to grow up healthy and normal. Adults need hugs, cuddles, kisses to stay healthy and normal. Sexual feelings are an extension of this. Normal, healthy, needed for the continuation of the human race.

Physicality is neccessary in loving relationships. Even buddies pat each other on the back, greet with a handshake, hug to comfort each other when life gets rocky.

Sex is a normal, healthy, good part of a marriage. Implying that it is not necessary, or somehow the lesser part of a marriage or an allowed but not so nice reality, is not correct.

I am not arguing your position on ABC, but sex in the context of marriage is not suspect, it is part of the sacrament instituted by Christ.

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Chex:
So I was wondering if anyone has any (clear) scripture which I can add to my side of this debate. While ethics can be debated, the Bible is infalliable.

Thanks! 🙂
I suggest the book The Bible and Birth Control by Charles Provan. He’s a protestant and it’s written for protestants. It’s a good book to have in your library on this topic.
 
I read a book by Kimberly Hahn called “life giving love” in it she says something like this(not an exact quote)
consider what scripture says vs’ what our cluture says about children.
Psalm 127song of ascents. Of Solomon. Unless the LORD build the house, they labor in vain who build. Unless the LORD guard the city, in vain does the guard keep watch? It is vain for you to rise early and put off your rest at night, To eat bread earned by hard toil-- all this God gives to his beloved in sleep. Children too are a gift from the LORD, the fruit of the womb, a reward Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children born in one’s youth. Blessed are they whose quivers are full. They will never be shamed contending with foes at the gate.
psalms 128:3 Like a fruitful vine your wife within your home, Like olive plants your children around your table.
There are others, but these were my favorite that she used to say how God feels about people who have many children. notice that ps 127 says the they are a “gift from the Lord”.
now here are some “modern day proverbs not found in scritpture” that she sort of made up to make her point.
  1. blessed are the couple who only have two children, for they will be able to pay for their college
    2 blessed are the couple have spaced their children at least 3 years apart, for they will never be stuck double diapering
    3 (and my favorite) blessed are the couple who have planned, timed and conceived just the right number of children, for they know the mind of God.
Kimberly Hahn helped me and my husband in our coversion to the truth about contraception (and my husband is a Bible thumping protestant and so was she when she came to the thruth). By realizing not what scripture had to say about contraception, but what it had to say about children. she realized that her attitudes reflected our culture, and not God. she said that she was always “pro life” but when she came to the truth about birthcontrole, she realized that until then, she had only been “anit abortion”. do you see the difference? I highly reccomend this book as a study tool for you. it’s so easy to read, she’s such a wonderful woman. Also, for your friend, I reccomend “Open embrace, a protestant couple reconsiders contraception”. it’s writen, not to shove the Cathlic Church down their throats, but to help them see that this is not just a Catholic issue.
check out www.blueletterbible.org it’s the only site I know where you can do this, unless you have a concordance at home. put in a search for the ward “children” and see all the scripture passages refering to Children. esp in the OT in psalms and proverbs. You and your friend will quickly discover how God sees a house full of children.

I hope this helps some. if they are pro life and pro family, it will. Only when truth is spoken, can the Holy Spirit work and I pray that it does. 🙂 God bless you for spreaking this important life saving thruth.
Sue

ps also talk to them about the pill and how it’s abortive. check out the couple to couple web site (not sure what it is) for information on that, or the Kimberly Hahn book I reccomended.
 
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Chex:
My theological discussions with Protestants on this matter rarely involve the Bible.

To this, they say, “…so…” and proceed to point out that the Bible says nothing against it.
Really? So on what basis ( if the bible says nothing) did all, I repeat ALL, of the Protestant churches consider contraception a vile sin for over 400 years? Did they just make it up or was that their interpretation of Scripture? It was their interpretation of Scripture, of course, and the witness of the entire Christian community for almost 2000 years. They simply caved in to society at the 1930 Lambeth Conference. Plain and simple.
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I attempted to point out that section in Gensis where God killed a man for “spilling his semen” before intercourse, but the circumstances make it an admittedly weak arguement.
One can say that it is relatively weak compared to other explicit teachings, but compared to THEIR argument it is very strong. They have nothing. Here is the biblical reality: Onan was killed for “spilling his seed”. Protestants will likely say that he was killed for not fulfilling his obligation to bear a child for his deceased brother’s wife. Unfortunately for them, the penalty for failing to meet that responsibility was NOT DEATH, it was public humiliation. So why was Onan killed? For spilling his seed. Even if that were the only mention of it in the bible that should be enough. You need to read all of this:
catholic.com/library/Birth_Control.asp
Here are a couple of exercpts from that tract the Reformers:

Martin Luther said, “[T]he exceedingly foul deed of Onan, the basest of wretches . . . is a most disgraceful sin. It is far more atrocious than incest and adultery. We call it unchastity, yes, a sodomitic sin. For Onan goes in to her; that is, he lies with her and copulates, and when it comes to the point of insemination, spills the semen, lest the woman conceive. Surely at such a time the order of nature established by God in procreation should be followed. Accordingly, it was a most disgraceful crime. . . . Consequently, he deserved to be killed by God. He committed an evil deed. Therefore, God punished him.”

John Calvin said, “The voluntary spilling of semen outside of intercourse between man and woman is a monstrous thing. Deliberately to withdraw from coitus in order that semen may fall on the ground is doubly monstrous. For this is to extinguish the hope of the race and to kill before he is born the hoped-for offspring.”

John Wesley warned, “Those sins that dishonor the body are very displeasing to God, and the evidence of vile affections. Observe, the thing which he [Onan] did displeased the Lord—and it is to be feared; thousands, especially of single persons, by this very thing, still displease the Lord, and destroy their own souls.” (These passages are quoted in Charles D. Provan, The Bible and Birth Control, which contains many quotes by historic Protestant figures who recognize contraception’s evils.)

Does it sound like these men were unsure of their biblical interpretations? Who’s kidding whom? For almost 2000 years ALL CHRISTIANS were of ONE MIND regarding contraception. God has not changed, the bible has not changed, the Catholic Church’s teaching has not changed; only the interpretations of those people unauthorized to interpret the bible have changed.
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Chex:
I read Humanus Vitae and other encyclicals and article on this site, but found little besides more ethical points of view. So I was wondering if anyone has any (clear) scripture which I can add to my side of this debate.
You already have it in Genesis - is it not clear enough when the topic is a man avoiding impregnating a woman by intentionally interrupting sexual intercourse? What would be more specific than that? And if there is nothing else, then you have to go by WHAT THERE IS, not by what you wish were there.
While ethics can be debated, the Bible is infalliable.
Thanks! 🙂
I thought you were Catholic. Ethics can be debated? You don’t understand what the Church is. You need to do some basic review.
The bible is not infallible, its inerrant. If you didn’t know that, you probably are not in a position to understand Humanae Vitae or other encyclicals without assisstance. That is what the Church is for.

Let me know if I can help…

Phil
 
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Chex:
To this, they say, “…so…” and proceed to point out that the Bible says nothing against it.
The Bible also says nothing against a man having more than one wife at the same time.

Does that mean male polygamy is okay?
 
Kay Cee:
The Bible also says nothing against a man having more than one wife at the same time.
Yes, it does. “No man can serve two masters!” 😃
 
David Zampino:
Yes, it does. “No man can serve two masters!” 😃
Very funny, David. I take it then that you believe the Bible says wives are the masters of their husbands.😃
 
Kay Cee:
Very funny, David. I take it then that you believe the Bible says wives are the masters of their husbands.😃
🙂 I wish I could take credit for this one . . . it originated with a good friend of mine who occasionally appears on this forum as “Desert Father”.

Blessings,
 
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Philthy:
I thought you were Catholic. Ethics can be debated? You don’t understand what the Church is. You need to do some basic review.
The bible is not infallible, its inerrant. If you didn’t know that, you probably are not in a position to understand Humanae Vitae or other encyclicals without assisstance. That is what the Church is for.

Let me know if I can help…

Phil

Thanks for all the info Phil 🙂 I’ll send you a PM if I need any more help.

But regarding my “understanding of the church”, I think you misunderstood me. I was talking from the protestant viewpoint. In their eyes the Bible is infalliable. If one could show a protestant clear scripture, they would be forced to agree. As to ethics, most fundies believe that they too can be debated. At least that’s my understanding. :o
 
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If one could show a protestant clear scripture, they would be forced to agree.
Nonsense. It is clear from Scripture that the Eucharist really is the Body and Blood of Christ, and yet many (if not most) Protestant churches manage to interpret their way out of that one.

When a Christian is sinning, and asks for biblical proof that they are sinning, that’s not the Christian talking. It his sin talking.

– Mark L. Chance.
 
All of us are tought to look at scripture through a certain “lense” if you will. I’ve got a couple of great friends who have converted to the church. one of them said that she had read such scriptures as John 6 many many times, but it wasn’t until she attended a catholic mass with her boyfriend (now husband) and saw how Catholics viewed it, that it clicked for her. she said the thought of Jesus being literal simeply NEVER occured to her. the same was true for the churches teaching on contraception. She had to turn around her whole view of the Bible and look at it from where her husband was standing.

I really think if you foccus on how the Bible speaks so highly of children as gifts and blessed is the man who has many, this might help a little. Be careful not to sound like you are saying, “everyone has to have 15 children.” but that they are gifts to be recieved freely like anyother gift. ask them if their faith is a gift and what would happen if they put up a wall between God and THAT gift.
 
thanks all! I just sent a well thought out, respectful email to fundamentalist friend of mine, taking into account all of the information you’ve given me. The opinions of historical protestant leaders is one point I expect to really be a turning point, though as SueKrum suggested, I made sure to put some heartfelt emotianal reasoning in as well. 😃
 
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