Serving and Reading and Hosts, Oh My!

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:hmmm: We have tried personal invitations, and all that that seems to yield is some people getting upset that we didn’t ask them and others who don’t want to do it when we ask them. We need to find a happy medium lol
 
:hmmm: We have tried personal invitations, and all that that seems to yield is some people getting upset that we didn’t ask them and others who don’t want to do it when we ask them. We need to find a happy medium lol
Okay, so if someone gets upset that they weren’t asked, what do you do? (ASK them, right? 🤷 )

Just say, “Oh, I’m sorry - of course you are welcome to volunteer for this ministry! Training classes are on these dates, at this time: see you there!” 👋
 
Yes. I agree 100%. As Catholics I think we are so easily discouraged to the point of depression. Our pastor gave a talk about money some time before Christmas. Collections weren’t enough to meet the needs of the Parish. He’s a young priest and can even give a good homily on money (perhaps especially on money). One parishioner said to him afterwards. “Don’t expect too much Father.”
What kind of an attitude is that??? Of course he should expect results. If not why bother to preach.
The same with asking people to help. One refuses, another might accept. They won’t accept today, but maybe tomorrow. We have to live the hope and courage that God expects from us. Supposing the Apostle Paul had had that attitude. Well, no one’s going to listen, why bother. Where would the Church be now. Catholics have to get over their pessimism.
I remember hearing an evangelical preacher talking about going to Korea or some Asian country as a missionary. He set up 100 chairs in a hall for his first talk, and the interviewer asked him, “How many people showed up.” He laughed and said 3 people and 97 angels. Now he has churches set up all through the country. We have to pray and have faith and ask the Father to send workers into the vineyard, and believe that He will hear our prayer.
 
However, we have to accept that for most people, their lay apostolate is to work at their job, love their spouses, raise their kids, and assist at the Mass from their pews.

Since I don’t have a spouse, a kid, or a very demanding job, I feel a lot more urgency to be a “church lady” than I would otherwise have. And honestly, if my spiritual life were stronger and my pride less, the good Lord would probably have allowed me to remain worshipping in the pew.

Doing anything up front is all about mortification. In every sense. 😉
 
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