Sexual Education in Marriage

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My husband and I are wondering about a tough topic. We have been married 3 years and I have never been able to reach climax/orgasm. Every secular resource will tell you the same thing, masterbation is the best way to “master” Your own orgasm before you can go on to communicate that to your spouse. Obviously we know this is not an option or of interest to me. Are there experts that would be worth consulting or any resources anyone knows of that will help us take a moral, Catholic approach to tackling this issue in our sex life, so we can enrich and fully thrive in our marital union?
 
Without getting graphic, your husband can stimulate you before intercourse and you can let him know what does (and doesn’t) work.
 
I’m pretty sure that within the context of foreplay and sex you’d even be able to touch yourself to show your spouse what is good. There are also books and articles in different things that could help you out. Sometime you just need more foreplay and more time and making sure you aren’t distracted by other thoughts.
 
Thank you for asking the questions I haven’t, and am completely unwilling to google!
 
Catholic sex counselors do exist, though not all of the ones who claim to be catholic actually teach things in line with Church teachings. Your diocese may have recommendations on which ones in your area are reliable.
 
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