My wife got me to go with her to a weekly Jeff Cavins bible study ( I was Lutheran, in fact, my middle name is Luther ) It had to be a solid study, though, like Cavins’ was, to get me to thinking. And in the end I came up with the idea of becoming Catholic myself, shocking my priest when he saw how passionate I was about it. Then, off to RCIA.
She “did not want to go alone”. Do something “regular” at the parish where you don’t want to go alone, and insist that he be with you so you do not have to be there alone. Do you like going alone? my guess is “no”, so you are not deceiving anyone; you really do want him with you, so tell him you want him to go. Then let the Lord figure out what to do when he is there. Andrew asked Simon to come with him to see Jesus. It was then up to Jesus to figure out how to convert that first Pope.