Should a man who has no children date a woman that has children?

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Should I date a woman who has children I myself have no children and don’t know if I ever will.
I meet women online due to not having transportation and most of these women have children already I know that it takes a strong man to accept another’s children.
 
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Should I date a woman who has children I myself have no children and don’t know if I ever will.
I meet women online due to not having transportation and most of these women have children already I know that it takes a strong man to accept another’s children.
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Actually, men without children are probably the best candidates for women who have children. Mixing children can cause huge issues.

That said, not everyone is called to date someone with children. It is quite difficult to do so.

However, as long as you are willing to take on the ‘package deal’ there is nothing wrong with considering it.
 
I don’t know if we are going to date we haven’t even met in person yet we met online in October and I really do like her but she said let’s just see where things go and she just ghosted.
 
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I don’t know if we are going to date we haven’t even met in person yet we met online in October and I really do like her but she said let’s just see where things go and she just ghosted.
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It sounds like they didn’t go anywhere.

Or perhaps it’s the holidays and she has to focus on her kid(s).
 
I’ve never really dated anyone and I notice girls say a lot of things when they aren’t interested its kinda hard for me to pickup on as I am inexperienced with woman.
We talked everyday up until December 4th then the 5th she said she wasn’t talking to anyone because she was in a bad mood and I haven’t heard anything since.
 
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I’ve never really dated anyone and I notice girls say a lot of things when they aren’t interested its kinda hard for me to pickup on as I am inexperienced with woman.
We talked everyday up until December 4th then the 5th she said she wasn’t talking to anyone because she was in a bad mood and I haven’t heard anything since.
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Sounds like she’s dealing with personal issues. It’s been nearly a month. Time to move on. Kids are not even relevant to this story. It happens with online dating…or any dating really.
 
I’d say if you’re bighearted enough-yes.If your lucky enough to have children in your life already such as nieces and nephews then you would be more in tune with them.If you haven’t had a lot to do with them already now’s a good time.God bless and all the best.
 
I’ve got nothing against it. That’s not something that bothers me at all.
 
Is she free to date? That means that she was not married to someone else without the Church having determined the validity of that marriage?

Are you seeking a committed relationship that leads to marriage? If not, it is unfair to become part of the kids’ lives just to leave them when you fall out of love.
 
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