@xqr768, please forgive me for saying it, but I think this conversation has now gone on long enough. For your own sake, please arrange to speak to a priest as soon as possible. Tell him what you just told me in your last post, about what “Jim” should say in his confession, and ask him to kindly give you his own assessment of your recommendation.
May God bless all your endeavors!
Kind regards
Bart
My thoughts exactly. Again, I am concerned that a person with such sensitivities could fall into thinking "I am the only person in the world who understands sin and the basic principles of morality, and everyone else is wrong". If the Church expected everyone to make confessions of several hours' duration, and to treat the world as a minefield of mortal sin lurking around every corner, she would tell us so. Such a mindset is Jansenism on crack.
If the situation were that bad, the Church would have no choice but to administer general absolution at every Mass. There wouldn't be enough priests to hear all of those confessions.