I didn’t hear the term “signal grace” until we’ll after these things happened, but looking back, they may have been…
One of the first times I prayed the Seven Sorrows rosary with my SIL’s group, one of the things asked for in the prayers was “the grace of complete sincerity and repentence”. I thought to myself, “yeah…that’s what I want.”. About 5 days later, I was taking someone’s place at the Adoration Chapel. I went with no agenda, except being there. As I knelt, I got what I asked for! “hold on, Jesus, let me write this down.” It was quite a list that I took to confession the next week. My confessor had one word for me when I was done…“wonderful”. Shortly after that he asked if I would be a EMHC. There was just a feeling of “wow”. Everything fell into place so perfectly.
Another instance… I was feeling very much like God was very silent in my life. I went to confession, but said nothing of the silence. As he was giving me my penance, (something abou listening to God) my confessor interrupted himself to say, “and there’s no two ways about it, God DOES speak to you and you do listen”. It was another wow - an answer to a question I hadn’t asked.
One more? I have been having an ongoing conversation about confession with a co-worker for the past 10 years. It had been nearly 40 years since she had been and has every excuse you’ve ever heard. This past year, maybe I sensed that it was getting closer. On the feast of Our Lady of Kibeho in November, I sat in the adoration Chapel and asked Our Lady to help reel this one in. Within a month, she came to work one morning saying, “I need to talk to that man (our priest) before Christmas”. I sent him an email a few days later with the subject, “got a net?”. Three days before Christmas she went to confession and on Christmas received Jesus for the first time in 37 years. She said she could feel a sensation when she returned to her pew. Lots of graces there. Signal or otherwise. Seven months later, things in her life continue to fall into place.
Common threads in these…confession, adoration, the Blessed Mother.