I guess I prefer no music or singing so that the priest can be heard.
Well, the priest doesn’t always
have to be heard. He and the deacon have quite a few silent prayers in the Ordinary Form of Mass:
If the Gospel is read by a deacon, then beforehand (during the Alleluia) he asks the priest, in a low voice, for a blessing (
Iube, domne, benedícere), and the priest blesses him in a low voice (
Dóminus sit in corde tuo et in lábiis tuis: ut digne et competénter annúnties Evangélium suum: in nómine Patris, et Fílii, + et Spíritus Sancti).
Otherwise, the priest prays privately for a blessing (
Munda cor meum ac lábia mea, omnípotens Deus, ut sanctum Evangélium tuum digne váleam nuntiáre).
When the Gospel is finished, the deacon/priest kisses the book and says privately
Per evangélica dicta deleántur nostra delícta.
The priest can choose to say the offertory prayers (over the bread and wine) in a low voice. The priest or deacon also says the prayer of the mingling of the wine and water privately (
Per huius aquae et vini mystérium eius efficiámur divinitátis consórtes, qui humanitátis nostrae fíeri dignátus est párticeps).
After those prayers, and before he washes his hands, the priest prays privately that he might offer a pleasing sacrifice (
In spíritu humilitátis et in ánimo contríto suscipiámur a te, Dómine; et sic fiat sacrifícium nostrum in conspéctu tuo hódie, ut pláceat tibi, Dómine Deus).
Then he washes his hands, praying privately (
Lava me, Dómine, ab iniquitáte mea, et a peccáto meo munda me).
After the priest has broken the consecrated Host (around the time of the
Agnus Dei (Lamb of God)), as he places a piece of the Host in the Chalice, he prays privately (
Haec commíxtio Córporis et Sánguinis Dómini nostri Iesu Christi fiat accipiéntibus nobis in vitam aetérnam).
After the
Agnus Dei, the priest prays a preparatory prayer in private (either
Dómine Iesu Christe, Fili Dei vivi, qui ex voluntáte Patris, cooperánte Spíritu Sancto, per mortem tuam mundum vivificásti: líbera me per hoc sacrosánctum Corpus et Sánguinem tuum ab ómnibus iniquitátibus meis et univérsis malis: et fac me tuis semper inhaerére mandátis, et a te numquam separári permíttas or
Percéptio Córporis et Sánguinis tui, Dómine Iesu Christe, non mihi provéniat in iudícium et condemnatiónem: sed pro tua pietáte prosit mihi ad tutaméntum mentis et córporis, et ad medélam percipiéndam).
Just before he consumes the Host, he prays privately (
Corpus Christi custódiat me in vitam aetérnam); he does the same right before drinking from the Chalice (
Sanguis Christi custódiat me in vitam aetérnam).
Finally, during the ablutions and purification of the sacred vessels, he says one more private prayer (
Quod ore súmpsimus, Dómine, pura mente capiámus, et de múnere temporáli fiat nobis remédium sempitérnum).