Sister's fiance living with us in separate room

[BluntGirl321]

My sister’s fiance is living with us in separate bedroom for at least a few months until he picks a house in the area to buy since he started a job here for her and lives 5 hrs away. He comes in to her room to watch tv and nap with her before bed since the tv is too loud for him downstairs to sleep. My sister is committed to no sex before marriage but she likes cuddling in bed with him. She says she sets a phone alarm to kick him out between 11:30 pm and 3 am. I dont have the power to kick him out. Any advice on if its a sin? I don’t have a position to kick him out.

 

[Zaccheus]

I don’t know whether they’re sinning but I suggest you don’t try to police them. You can’t do anything about it and trying is likely to just antagonize your sister.

 

[ewohdrol]

Assuming your sister is not underage I wouldn’t do anything. After all if they decide to have sex it can be done during day hours, anywhere.

Keep out. Let her be the keeper of her own soul.

 

[Kima]

I live in a house where my sister and her boyfriend lives together as unmarried, in one bedroom.

I really can´t do much. If she ask what I think I´ll say, but otherwise I can´t force my beliefs upon her. She has to live her own life and make her own decisions.

But if she asks you if you have advise on how to not have sex before marriage you may tell her.