So depressed and sad

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I am so depressed i have been getting bullied for my weight by mom and dad and a few other people since 2011 or 2012 and since i met the love of my life in 2015 my dad and mom and everyone else says me and my fiance cant have children when we get married because they will have disabilities like us and i just started going to overeaters anonymous last thursday and tonight my mom accused me of not taking OA seriously and my step sister called me stupid a few months ago for posting on facebook about wanting to be a mother and my dad told me i am not able to be a mom and that i have to choose option b i was so upset from sunday night to tusday i did not read my pregnancy and breastfeeding and parenting books and did not look up anything pertaining to that on the internet i talked to a friend and he said to get a lawyer sometimes i sometimes question my pro life views because of everyone saying disabled couples cant have kids and sometimes i think about committing suicide plz pray for me and tim
 
Know that we all have the right to life–suicide should NOT be an option.
If you are being bullied, that may be one cause, a “trigger” for overeating. Do try to take care to not overeat too much. The quality of life gets better, and our bodies should be Temples of God.

It’s very wrong for people to say that you can’t have children, unless you really are in a shape that it’d be dangerous or nearly impossible (I do not know how overweight you are, but I imagine at some point it does become dangerous). I do not know their intentions, but don’t let it get to you. Keep going forward, always praying and trusting in God.
God bless.
I will pray for you. Please pray for me.
 
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To me, it sounds like you would be a lovely mother. Your parents probably meant well and are trying to look out for you, although it sounds like they’re not pulling it off very well, many don’t despite good intentions, try to forgive them.

My advice would be to see a doctor if you’re concerned about your health and a pregnancy. I’m sure the people telling you this stuff about pregnancy aren’t doctors who have examined you.
 
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