Charisms aren’t always easily and neatly distilled into a Wikipedia article (for example). You really need to dig deep into what makes them tick, so to speak, to understand it - and as @nunsuch says, things like daily routines are only signs that might point you in the right direction; then again, they might not help that much at all. Start with what’s important and critical to you, what drives you, and the specifics of what you believe. Then, it won’t matter what XYZ order has for descriptors if they’re not clearly aligned with you. If they are aligned, you’ll see it.
To illustrate my point, I was curious and “interested” in 3-4 different orders. Once I knew myself, the answer was so easy! None of those, but choice # 5 that I hadn’t even considered before! And once I started down the formal path with # 5, it still took the months of candidacy and meetings/spiritual direction, prayer, and study before I felt like I understood what they were all about and I could firmly say, “yes, this is for me.”