So what topics would not be divisive?

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I am not trying to justify the diviisveness and arguing found on the TC Forum, but I woulld like to make all aware that this is not a problem exclusive to this forum. Have you ever paid a visit to the Apologetics or Non-Catholic Religions Forums? Fighting gets pretty intense there too. Again, I am not justifying, but letting you know that this is not a unique problem.
 
I don’t really know enough about Traditional Catholicism to give an intelligent answer. I mean seriously. I have been to only a handful of EF Masses, and devotions like Liturgy of the Hours are a total mystery to me. I know that I am intrigued and would like to learn more, but i get so discouraged when it turns into a fight. I know that I have been divisive in the past, but that is something that I am working on changing.
I think that having someone like you asking sincere questions would be a great way to start threads.
 
I am not trying to justify the diviisveness and arguing found on the TC Forum, but I woulld like to make all aware that this is not a problem exclusive to this forum. Have you ever paid a visit to the Apologetics or Non-Catholic Religions Forums? Fighting gets pretty intense there too. Again, I am not justifying, but letting you know that this is not a unique problem.
It takes two to argue. Normally - when I encounter such things I let my opinion be known - Usually this leads to a few posts where someone wants to attempt to twist what I said into something else - I’ll stick around long enough to clairify and then I am on to the next thread. Nothing is accomplished in entrenched positions constantly bickering. It is my opinion that this Traditional forum was created to clear up misconceptions about the EF. But instead we seem to get the OF is better heres why or the EF is better heres why followed by battle royal.

I dont go to the OF. I dont like it. I go to the EF. Should that opinion be grounds for an attack? You tell me.
 
It takes two to argue. Normally - when I encounter such things I let my opinion be known - Usually this leads to a few posts where someone wants to attempt to twist what I said into something else - I’ll stick around long enough to clairify and then I am on to the next thread. Nothing is accomplished in entrenched positions constantly bickering. It is my opinion that this Traditional forum was created to clear up misconceptions about the EF. But instead we seem to get the OF is better heres why or the EF is better heres why followed by battle royal.

I dont go to the OF. I dont like it. I go to the EF. Should that opinion be grounds for an attack? You tell me.
I have never seen a post stating “the OF is better.” Can you please provide an example?
 
By the way, the question in the subject line is not rhetorical. I really am trying to think of topics to discuss here that are less likely to be divisive.
I think you’ve found the one safe issue, what to talk about.😉
 
And who would want to talk about them? I have noticed that some of the subject lines seem to be designed to stir up controversy. I also get the impression from some posters that they are looking for a fight. There seem to be some people who come here for the purpose of attacking a traditional approach to Catholicism and some to attack non-traditional approaches. Is there more to this sub-forum than fighting?
Welcome to the world of religion. There is no doubt some posters here want to stir up controversy. There is no doubt some posters here are looking for a fight. There is no doubt some posters here want to attack the traditionalist approach. There is no doubt some posters here want to attack non-traditionalist approaches to Catholicism. That is the world of religion. Ask yourself why.

Some people, irrespective of whether they are a traditionalist or a non-traditionalist post because they simply want others to agree with them, or because they want an arena to air their opinions. Have you ever heard the saying, ‘never discuss religion or politics?’ The reason this saying exists, is because finding common ground is so much more difficult in the field of religion or politics. To explain, when it comes to a mathematical or chemical equation, there is one ‘right’ answer. An answer that cannot be disputed. When it comes to religion, the answer is not so straight forward, because, it requires faith.

Religion stirs up controversy. Look at the life of Christ. Did he not, on many an occasion, stir up controvery? The Gospels are full of controversy stories. However, controversy serves a very positive purpose. It make us think. It makes us reason and analyse what we believe and why. When you push through controversy and accept the challange controversy presents, you come out the other side with a very deep belief, comforatable with who you are and why you think what you do and you feel less threatened, or annoyed by challanges to your faith. That is maturity of faith. I can recall meeting a Dominican priest who reacted to very little. The reason being, he was so comfortable with his faith he had no need to be upset by challanges to his faith, yet had the maturity to understand someone else’s views when they were not his own. I learned a lot about faith from that priest.

This is an internet forum. The internet provides us with anonymity. You cannot really conclude who someone really is, or what they really think from an internet post. There is a positive aspect to it, in that the internet gives us anonymity and and a forum to air our views without really falling out with anyone, as we don’t know posters personally. If we did, we may guard our tongue more conciously than we do. Yes, it is healthy discussion but, it is a virtual world and you don’t really know a lot about a person from a post on the internet. What I am saying is, don’t read too much into what someone says on an internet post. You don’t really know who you are engaging in conversation with and you can only assume what their agenda is.

Traitionalists and non-traditionalists will always be in dispute. However, both make a valuable contribution to the Catholic faith. I can remember reading a theologian who said, ‘the pious are not liberal, and the liberal are not pious.’ The point he was making was, there is much tradtionalists and non-tradtionalists can learn from each other. If traditionalists could be a bit more non-traditional and non-traditionalists could be a bit more traditonal, we may actually hit on the essense of Christianity. 😃

Don’t read too much into what you read on an internet sight. Take their words as it is and deal with what people say rather than attempting guess the intention behind their words. A post on an internet site tells you little about who the person posting is. People post on internet sights for all sorts of reasons. You can only guess what they are. If someone appears to want a fight on an internet post, what does that say about the poster?

You ask if there is more to this sub-forum than fighting. That depends what you personally want from the forum. If someone else wants a fight, that is their problem, you don’t have to make it yours.
 
If someone else wants a fight, that is their problem, you don’t have to make it yours.
Maybe I should put this saying up on my wall next to the computer. It can go next to my xkcd cartoon:
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If that doesn’t work, I don’t know what will. I just don’t have what it takes to talk about kittens. 😃
 
DO you guys really think people are trying to deliberately bait people into arguments?

REALLY?

Even in some of the threads that have degenerated into bitter battles I’ve always assumed the OP was genuine in their quest for information and/or opinions. :\
I’ve noticed a few times a member who doesn’t post on TC often asks a question here that makes me roll my eyes, but after glancing at his/her other posts, see no reason to think it’s bait. And it’s understandable after the bickering starts, they fail to reply.

And, imagine a first time non-Catholic guest who comes to CA and happens upon the TC forum. They may think we are nuts and never return after skimming through the average thread here.
 
How about kittens? Kittens aren’t divisive 😉
I would guarantee, no matter what you talked about, it would become divisive.

My husband keeps marine fish and every ‘expert’ tells you something different.

Have you ever had a tradesman carry out work in your home? (Or should I say tradesperson) The first thing they will do is shake their head and tell you the other guy, (or gal) did a terrible job and they will do a much better one.

I have had several personal trainers. Every single one told me the other personal trainers were wrong and they were right.

To this day, no one really knows what started what was argueably 😛 the greatest tradgedy in history; WW1.

So, from goldfish to world wars, we humans are set to bicker.
 
I would guarantee, no matter what you talked about, it would become divisive.

My husband keeps marine fish and every ‘expert’ tells you something different.

Have you ever had a tradesman carry out work in your home? (Or should I say tradesperson) The first thing they will do is shake their head and tell you the other guy, (or gal) did a terrible job and they will do a much better one.

I have had several personal trainers. Every single one told me the other personal trainers were wrong and they were right.

To this day, no one really knows what started what was argueably 😛 the greatest tradgedy in history; WW1.

So, from goldfish to world wars, we humans are set to bicker.
Eskimos. they started WWI !
 
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