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Thank you - that answers the question at hand.

No, as to the issue of “power” and who has it in the Orders - they all would do themselves well to not make “secrets” out of things that do not require it. They might try spending some more time on humility than on power.
This bod is mine. The sentence is very judgmental and unfortunate. We cannot judge the many by the sins of the few. Original sin has tainted all of us, not just those in religious life. If we, religious, were not tainted by Original sin, there would be no need for constant conversion, which is a given in religious life.

That being said, for us power has nothing to do with money. The money that people give to my pregnancy centers, my fatherhood program, my ministry to the sick and elderly who are threatened by active and passive euthanasia does not benefit me one way or another. I don’t see it and I don’t get to enjoy any of it. It goes to where it is meant, to serve our people.

The power of which we speak here has to do with autonomy from lay and episcopal control. Pope Innocent III realized that the laity and the bishops were using money as a means to control religious life. Not only money, but also their positions in civil and ecclesial circles. That’s why he declared that religious orders of Pontifical Right could never be governed by the laity or the bishops, but must govern themselves. To this day, those of us who belong to religious orders of pontifical right make our own rules, policies, and decide what direction our work and life takes. When that’s agreed upon by the capitulars, it is sent to the Holy See for papal approval.

As was said above, you keep the number of cooks to the bare minimum to avoid confusion, coercion, and micromanagement of religious orders.

If someone does not want to give the Brothers of Life any money, because we decide what goes into our constitutions or how we minister, that’s fine with us. No one is obliged to give us a cent. God has plenty of money and he will provide for the people whom we serve, one way or another. It’s unfortunate if someone decides not to support our work for the unborn and the parents, the sick and ederly, the hungry and homeless, because they don’t have a vote in our chapters. It’s unfortunate, because what it says is that the would be benefactor wants to give and get something in return, which is a voice in the community. When I give my nephews and nieces a gift, I do not give it with the intention of having a voice in their lives or their work. I give it out of love.

When someone gives the Brothers of Life a gift, they give it out of love for the vulnerable peopel that the Brothers serve. If they want to know whether they are being ripped off or not all they have to do is look at the facts: 1) we walk, because we don’t own cars. 2) we have two habits and no other clothing. 3) we eat one meal a day, because we have no salaries and no income. 4) we beg to raise the funds necessary to pay for our education and to care for our sick brothers. 5) none of us has medical insurance, because we cannot afford to pay for it. 6) we are not in debt with anyone. 7) we do not own the houses in which we live, they are rented or on loan to us. 8) I’ve got cancer and am going to die, because medicaid does not pay for all of my treatments. 9) we spend long hours in prayer, silence, solitude and brotherhood. 10) we’re very happy.

As to secrets, each religious order is a family, not an institution. Families are to be honest and discrete. Families do not share everything with the world around them. We’re no different. Our Fathers founded families and that is what we are and we have the same rights as any other family. We share when and what we want and we don’t share other things, just like your family. Money has nothing to do with this. Every cent that we receive is really for a service that we provide, just like you receive a salary for services that you provide. The difference is that we don’t receive the same amount as other people who do the same things in the secular world. One of our brothers who teaches gets a roof, one meal a day, two habits and the supplies to teach. Other teachers get enough money to take a vacation.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
… I’ve got cancer and am going to die, because medicaid does not pay for all of my treatments. …

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
Brother, I hadn’t realized that your health has declined to this extent.
As always, prayers for you - and many thanks to you for your life of service.
 
Brother, I hadn’t realized that your health has declined to this extent.
As always, prayers for you - and many thanks to you for your life of service.
Thanks for your prayers. I look at it from several perspectives. We’re all going to die. I’ve lived a long and very happy life. I’ve done the best I could with the time that God is giving me. Therefore, I’m ready to go home whenever he chooses to call me.

In the meantime, I’m doing what I do best, I pray and advocate for the Church and the most vulnerable members of society, because that’s where Jesus is to be found. That’s why, from my point of view, these discussions on who did what and when are no longer relevant.

It’s very interesting, when you are faced with your own mortality you realize what is truly important in life. To me that is that one statement by Jesus, “Love one another as I have loved you.” The rest becomes nothing more than a list of challenges that one has to deal with on a day to day basis, but the meat of the matter is to remember love.

I know that 30miller brings up many ponts about what religious order paid what for what damages and what the Legion of Christ did or did not do or the Jesuits. The fact is that I can’t confirm or deny these things for a simple reason, I no nothing about any of this.

We have a very strict policy about detachment in our constitutions, which comes from the holy rule. We never read newspapers or magazines, do not watch news on TV or listen to the radio. We do not read online newspapers. The news that we get is through internal communication within the Church and the Order. We rarely speak with lay people. We go out, do our work among the poor, the pregnant, the sick and the elderly and we return to silence and solitude.

We are aware that there is sin in the world, being that Christians live in the world, it is no surprise that sin can be found in the Church. Original sin can be found in all of us. The most important thing, in order to achieve great holiness is to remember that among the Apostles there was one traitor out of 12. The statistics are actually better among clergy, brothers, sisters, nuns, friars and monks. We have seen improvement over the centuries.

God does not call us to be perfect over night. He calls us to walk toward perfection one step at a time, even if we take two steps forward and one back, we’re still ahead one step. It’s too easy to get caught into a mindset that believs that there will never be setbacks or never be sin. As Jesus said, “The poor will always be with you.” He was not speaking about the materially poor, but about sinners. Sinners will always be with us. Even if I were the last man standing, there would be at least one sinner with me. That would be me.

There are two tendencies that we must avoid. Our Holy Father Francis warned the brothers about them. There is a tendency to pretend that there is no such thing as sin. That is a very dangerous way to walk. It’s like walking down a street pretending there is no traffic. The second tendency, Father Francis said, is equally damaging to the soul. That is the tendency to take note of every sin.

Francis’ sprituality was very balanced. He saw sins, but never sinners. In fact, our rule forbids that we even contemplate the posibility that anyone is a sinner. We are to correct each other’s sins, but never correct each other. This is a very strange concept for the world. But a very old practice for the Franciscan family. In fact, it’s 800 years old. To correct sin is to repair the damage done, if possible, to avoid doing it again and to do penance to atone for sin, our own and the sins of others. But we never say that others are guilty of sin. Francis forbade that under penalty of disobedience to him.

I know that many religious families, not just the Franciscan family, have lose canons. But we have many more holy people than we have lose canons. Also, the religious life is about great love in very difficult situations.

To close, if I can live by these standards set by our Holy Father, then I can honestly say that I’m ready to go home whenever God calls me. This is the same for a Jesuit, Salesian, Dominican, Christian Brother and many others. We live by the standards of our founders and the rest is in God’s hands. He will show us what to do each step of the way. That is perfect obedience.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
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