You sound like a sweetheart. So let me tell you a truth right about now. Most guys aren’t. So even if he’s projecting all innocence and good stuff you’re in his sights on this. You’re putting yourself in a really bad spot of vulnerability. For no reason. Well. For no good reason.
Where do you live that 69 dollars is a make or break deal for either one of you? Perhaps if that is really the case you could better save your money by not making the trip.
Perhaps this is something to talk to your priest or your parents about, not strangers on the internet.
Ouch , stereotyping much! , anyway if it’s in seperate beds its perfectly fine, if you keep it platonic , which is easier than people claim.You sound like a sweetheart. So let me tell you a truth right about now. Most guys aren’t. So even if he’s projecting all innocence and good stuff you’re in his sights on this. You’re putting yourself in a really bad spot of vulnerability. For no reason. Well. For no good reason.
I can’t stress enough why this is a bad idea. I mean even if you don’t care about your reputation. Or his. Just think about the kind of stress you’re going to put him under. I mean never mind that it’s his idea. He’s like an untamed lion and you’re like a prize steak. That’s no exaggeration here. So yeah. If you want to stay chaste. You’d better make haste. And plan on other plans. Because this is dynamite in a bottle. And there’s no good reason for it.
Peace Sam. Good luck!
-Tident, the ‘tamed’ lion
Have the courage to say “no, thank you”. If he cares for you then he will understand. It is really a no-go. And you did the right thing to check if you were unsure.
Not really. Just solid Catholic responsible advice. Are you going to pick up the pieces for her if she messes up?
Stereotypes exist for just this kind of moment. They’re there for that broad brush approach. The balance of probabilities. You think I’m going to take the outside track on this? Expect him to be an angel? Or her? Have you lived in the real world? I mean that’s where I’m from. And in that land people fall into temptation with a lot less space than a hotel room. With a lot more people around than just them and a sleeping girl they’ve admired from afar. And in a lot shorter space than a whole night. A whole night for them to resist 10 times a minute. 600 times an hour. For 8 hours.
If he is someone you have not met yet this is a dangerous situation.
Very difficult to keep it platonic, since they haven’t seen each other in a while.
Yes. If you haven’t met him before, you should not be arranging to sleep in the same hotel room as him, even in different beds.
SAM, How old are you? That plays a huge roll in deciding how to answer you.
I would advise that you ask your family , priest , good friends etc for their (name removed by moderator)ut , two if your fine with being in the same hotel , make sure there is more than one room and bring a relative along , if there is only one room , I’d advise against the sleeping in the same hotel, let him know you care , but are not comfortable with the setting and refuse , that is my advice .
Keep the faith , Starwars .
I was trying to say this advise the first time .
Peace buddy. Thanks for the reset.
-Trident