Thanks to all for posting! This forum is stimulating and enriching as we fellow Catholics exchange our divers viewpoints.
I agree more with dtmccameron: It is a gift! A gift is given with / without asking.
I don’t think this is “tempting the Lord” in any way!
This is my opinion…
I posted this question to serve as a window into each individual’s level of trust in Our Father! Jesus says we have to become like little children to enter the kingdom of Heaven. As we can see, some of us think like adults when we feel we are “not worthy” to ask for a share in our Savior’s wounds. OK. But then again, does that make us “worthy” to receive any and/or all other gifts that He has chosen to bestow upon us, His sons and daughters? Does that make us “worthy” to receive His Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity each and every time we communicate?
Just to mention a couple of examples from history…
Issac-Jacob (took the place of Esau for his father’s blessing)
Elias-Elesius (he
asked for Elias power)
To those who are parents: Does your child have any inhibitions in asking you for something/anything, despite the “value” of that requested? Whether is harmful or hurtful to him and/or others? Whether he deserves it or not? Whether he is responsible or not?
He approaches his parent in a candid and trusting manner while relying on his parent’s decision knowing it will be carried thru having the best interest at heart.
You may give that which he has asked for…
- He is happy
- You are happy
- He needs it
- He wants it
- It is useful to him
- #5 and others
- #5, 6 and environment
- It was a sacrifice on your part
- It was a reward…
Do we as adults, hesitate in asking God for life, health, peace… the Holy Spirit for His gifts, the Mother for all and sundry, foster Father; St. Joseph, all other Saints and Angels?
No.
Apart from praising, thanking and interceding, do we see ourselves asking, asking, asking and asking?
Yes! We also
“ask” that HIS WILL BE DONE!
Why?
Simply because He is the Giver! He is our Father! He can! He is! He does!
O Lord I am not worthy that You should come to me, but say the word Lord, say the word and my soul shall be healed!
Now looking at the wretched, undeserveding, unworthy self, my way of understanding when my petitions are answered…
- God grants my petition because of Himself (Father and child scenario) thereby deepens my trust in Him
- God grants my petition, because of the intercessor (Mother and child scenario)
- God grants my petition to glorify Himself (thru His creation, Angels, Saints)
- God grants my petition because He is Mercy (my salvation)
He knows our every thought, need, but yet desires humility to put to use His generosity… to give you something you do NOT deserve…
Mary, our Sorrowful Mother, endured every Friday on her virginal body, invisibly the entire Way of the Cross, until she passed from here to Her empyrean throne in Heaven.
(a/c to “Mystical City of God” by Ven. Mary of Agreda)
St. Paul was among the very first to bear the wounds of Christ on his body (a/c to his writings in the Bible)
There are only a few (62 known) saints/blessed that bear the stigmata and we have more saints/blessed without the stigmata.
Again in my opinion, having the stigmata DOES NOT make one holy or holier that the others. Each of us has our own place in His Sacred Heart. Humility and Love is the path trod to holiness and since our soul takes on the image of Christ or the beast, I feel it is okay to ask Jesus for a share in His passion, in order to resemble Him more intimately!
Be blessed in Jesus name!

