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I am a proud, Magesterium-loyal, husband and father. My wife is 34 weeks pregnant with our newest son. She has been on bed rest since week 26.
This is my wife’s ninth pregnancy and we have two other living children. This is her first experience of pre-term labor.
Now, I hate to sound ungrateful, because we have received a humbling amount of prayers and assistance during this challenging time. I need to vent, however, about some comments I’ve received that have annoyed me.
A few people( most recently my son’s wonderful Catholic school teacher) when asking how my wife is doing during bed rest, have said, “now this will be your last child, right?”
I know the stress and lack of sleep can make me irritable, but I really hate comments like that. My usual response is something like, “we will see. I think that is up to God.” Most times, I’m met with eye-rolling or some other dismissive reaction.
I trust the level-heads in this forum. Do you have any suggestions on how I can address these comments in a way that allows me to offer a testimony to life and Catholic teaching?
I want to remain thankful and charitable for all the charity and compassion we have received, but I do not want to let anyone think we tolerate “modern” attitudes about how family size is something you should “choose” based upon “convenience.”
This is my wife’s ninth pregnancy and we have two other living children. This is her first experience of pre-term labor.
Now, I hate to sound ungrateful, because we have received a humbling amount of prayers and assistance during this challenging time. I need to vent, however, about some comments I’ve received that have annoyed me.
A few people( most recently my son’s wonderful Catholic school teacher) when asking how my wife is doing during bed rest, have said, “now this will be your last child, right?”
I know the stress and lack of sleep can make me irritable, but I really hate comments like that. My usual response is something like, “we will see. I think that is up to God.” Most times, I’m met with eye-rolling or some other dismissive reaction.
I trust the level-heads in this forum. Do you have any suggestions on how I can address these comments in a way that allows me to offer a testimony to life and Catholic teaching?
I want to remain thankful and charitable for all the charity and compassion we have received, but I do not want to let anyone think we tolerate “modern” attitudes about how family size is something you should “choose” based upon “convenience.”