Teaching about Puberty

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I am considering opting my 5th grade daughter out of learning about puberty at her public school. Does anyone have suggestions on how I can teach it according to our faith at home? Any good books or videos?
 
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I think my parents would’ve died of embarrassment if they had to spend too much time on that topic. They gave me a wonderful book by American Girl that covered all that. It went through puberty, hygiene, good eating and exercise habits, sleep… It was great, I didn’t have to feel embarrassed with my questions. Although if you’re looking for something that covers sex this doesn’t touch that topic. It’s called The Care and Keeping of You. You can probably get it for like five bucks.

Edit: obviously this isn’t a faith based book, but there was nothing in it contrary to our teachings
 
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Thanks for the advice, Talitha712!!
 
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I would have thought it would just be learning about periods and the biological changes at this age.
 
I think my parents would’ve died of embarrassment if they had to spend too much time on that topic. They gave me a wonderful book by American Girl that covered all that. It went through puberty, hygiene, good eating and exercise habits, sleep… It was great, I didn’t have to feel embarrassed with my questions. Although if you’re looking for something that covers sex this doesn’t touch that topic. It’s called The Care and Keeping of You. You can probably get it for like five bucks.

Edit: obviously this isn’t a faith based book, but there was nothing in it contrary to our teachings
Yes, yes, yes! That book was a godsend when I was going through puberty. It’s frank (it contains anatomically correct drawings of female genitalia and breasts), but very tasteful and informative. It’s definitely geared toward preteens/young teenagers, as it doesn’t touch on the topic of sex at all. It does cover hygiene, nutrition, dental care, mental wellness, and menstruation (complete with instructions on how to use period products).
 
No. She said they will be educated on contraception and other things. I know they had counselors come in for sensitivity training for transgenders. It’s different now than when I learned it in school!
 
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You might consider waiting until it’s all over and then explain what all of that confusing stuff was about.
 
Thanks. We’ll definitely be sorting through all the confusion stuff. I went ahead and purchased a few books on the biology of it, chastity and will touch on Theology of the Body too. She’s very curious and has lots of questions.
 
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If she is in fifth grade, she probably already knows all about It. Lots of what she has learned may be inaccurate. I would start by asking her what she knows and then take it from there.
 
Have you even had the birds and bees( very basic) conversation? So your daughter is 10 or so going on 11? My wife had her first period at age 11, so I hope you have discussed some things.

In any case, I would just make it very frank and biological. Explain what a condom, and the pill is, but that Catholics don’t use those, etc.
 
She did tell me what she knew, and we did discuss some basic biological facts about the birds and the bees, but I also did talk to her about some things like how we don’t believe in contraception (she had no idea what that was), or abortion.
 
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Subjects like this should be taught in the home by the child’s parents not in the schools.
 
Subjects like this should be taught in the home by the child’s parents not in the schools.
I had 5th grade sex ed in a Catholic school. Obviously a bit different from the OP’s daughter’s school’s program. But I would say there is value to it. Especially if a child’s parents were uncomfortable and learning at school reduced the lack of knowledge.
 
Subjects like this should be taught in the home by the child’s parents not in the schools.
No. There has to be some standard distribution of information. Some of the stuff uninformed kids are willing to believe about sex is unreal, and all-too often the parents are either too uncomfortable or not aware enough to set them straight.
 
If the parents are uncomfortable discussing the subject matter, there are plenty of books on the subject they can get for their child.
 
Sometimes you need to ask questions. It must be difficult for single parents with opposite sex child, there is a lot about male puberty I genuinely don’t know.
 
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