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Meggie
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I’m 22 and just starting my teen minstry. I just went to an awsome retreat where I realized God was using me for the teens.
However, I do have one problem I run into. I’m basically adopted by the family I live with. I live with youth ministers, (hereon refered to as my parents) not the ones who originally helped me, but not so far away that I never see kids from my old parish, and it hasn’t been long enough that the youth from my parent’s parish forget that I’m not their natural daughter.
My problem is that kids tend to be extremely jelous of my situation (grass is greener). At least three teens have reveled this.
I want to be able to accomidate all these things when I say why they can’t just live at my house:
However, I do have one problem I run into. I’m basically adopted by the family I live with. I live with youth ministers, (hereon refered to as my parents) not the ones who originally helped me, but not so far away that I never see kids from my old parish, and it hasn’t been long enough that the youth from my parent’s parish forget that I’m not their natural daughter.
My problem is that kids tend to be extremely jelous of my situation (grass is greener). At least three teens have reveled this.
I want to be able to accomidate all these things when I say why they can’t just live at my house:
- I want to comfort them and help them in their situations without minimizing their pain, especally serious issues, such as divorse. And at the end of the day I know they love their families.
- I don’t want to reveal too much to the kids. Much of my life is unbelievable to adults. I don’t totally remove myself and my life, but I do guard against TMI.
- I don’t want to discredit my parents. They are wonderful and amazing people, but they are still PEOPLE. I argue, I disagree, they upset me and I upset them…its provinical but NOT perfect. Even without my past, even if I’d grown up here I wouldn’t have the perfect life.