There is a certain amount of guilt and shame the addicted feels… down to their very soul. I call these calls for help… while the uncontrolled urges remain creating more guilt and shame. Not all make it out of this quicksand. Those that do, with the help from many sources, do not want to return there, and will do what needs to be done to stay free and clear. Some return, against their new free-will, like the compulsion was greater then their will to fight it. But, there is guilt and shame again. I see the guilt as needing Christ’s help with this, and shame as needing societies help (and those close to one)… which it usually comes down to before sobriety is had.
There is the fact that one can say they did not know this would happen… but they saw it happen to a relative, or friend, or heard of it from others… but thought it would not happen to them, like they are stronger then it is (HaHa). The shame and guilt comes from knowing that weakness deep down. And that one should of known better to began with, even before the addition started. But, when did it start? After the troubles started, or well before that… even at the first try of the substance. So, one is not totally not at fault due to the ‘knowing’ what it does, and not heading that knowledge.
Some cannot have peanuts; some are allergic to dairy products; some are allergic to alcohol and/or drugs; some puff-up with shellfish; Once known, how would that be excused if one took the killer substance???