Texas dad alleges bullying in 91-0 football game

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Dad’s a sore loser. I might have missed out on competitive athletics as a kid, but even I know these things happen. The Aledo coach did everything in his power to blunt the damage and the teams themselves aren’t upset.

If your kid isn’t upset, what’s the problem?
 
Its a sports score, so it doesnt really matter, bullying or not, just another score.

This whole bullying thing has gotten crazy, I cant understand the online bullying…all they have to do is hit the OFF button to make it stop!!! Or even better, avoid the sites where it happens, computers have the ability to block out certain sites, people IP addresses, etc. Maybe we need to start teaching kids how these functions work and how to use them versus bullying help?
Online bullying is different. Everyone in the world is reading it. Then the kids are being made fun of at school too. Online bullying isn’t just online, its an extension. The bullies are bullying the kids at school (in person) and then at home via email, phone text, Facebook, etc. With online bullying, the kid getting bullied can’t get away from it. And it becomes very public too…

It’s not as easy as “turn it off”
 
Here in the Houston area, there is an organization called Fun, Fair, Positive Soccer (FFPS). It is a soccer league that doesn’t keep score, doesn’t believe in winners or losers (EVERYONE is a winner) and everyone gets a great trophy. Parents and guests must be careful how they cheer for their child because it isn’t fair if one child gets more cheers than another. This is a league for kids ages 5 to 18.

How much do you want to bet that this parent has had their child in a similar league.

I really feel for that poor kid.

Peace

Tim
Like others have said, I feel sorry for those kids that are in this “score-free” soccer league. That seems to me to be child abuse of the first order.
 
My local high school plays under a slaughter rule. If one team is behind going into the second half (I think it’s 40 points or more) they play without stopping the clock.

They do something like this in baseball games too, even at the college level. Sometimes they just pray for rain. 🙂
 
Since this dad did not take his kid out of the game, CPS needs to come to his home and take his kids away from him for child abuse.

Also, his lawsuit claiming McDonalds made his daughter fat should be reviewed.

We need to go down to the library with black markers and go through all the books and start marking out all those cruel words and the violence too, better yet use scissors, some books just need to be burned.
 
My local high school plays under a slaughter rule. If one team is behind going into the second half (I think it’s 40 points or more) they play without stopping the clock.
They did that in this game, too. The clock ran continuously starting in the 3rd quarter.

Peace

Tim
 
If the coach had played the 1st string the whole time, then it would have been unsportsmanlike. However, he had his 3rd string in.

The reason the “no one loses” sports leagues exist is because of some bonehead parents.

When I was a kid in Little League, my dad was the coach and be was a very fair coach. He didnt play favorites (he actually feels that he should have shown me special treatment, but I tell him he did just fine). However, there were a few families who were always riding my dad to play their kid here or there. I kept getting moved around the ball field to satisfy those parents. I usually played 1st base. One day, after lots of nagging, my dad switched the two us. He went to 1st and me to 3rd. Neither of us were used to playing the new positions. The parents were sitting on the 3rd base side that game. I could hear everything they were saying in the stands. I was fielding plenty of hot shots at third, not all cleanly. They would say, “Ahh, our son would have had that”. Every play, a snide remark. Finally, there was one hot shot that came my way and my throw was low, but catchable. I made scooping catches from their son all the time. Well, he missed the scoop and then I started to hear “oh come on, our son would never throw such a terrible throw” blah, blah, blah. I lost my cool then and snapped. I turned and yelled back at those parents and then my dad forfeited the game.

I was so hurt and upset. But wasn’t about the game, it was the parents.

Leagues put these “no one loses” things in place because of these bonehead parents. But it the wrong measage. You should keep score, everyone should not get trophies.

If you want to protect kids, keep the idiot parents away from the games and give trophies to winners only. I was totally insulted the first time I got a trophy for last place.
It is funny how these parents scream the coaches kid is playing when their own kid missed every practice.
 
Here in the Houston area, there is an organization called Fun, Fair, Positive Soccer (FFPS). It is a soccer league that doesn’t keep score, doesn’t believe in winners or losers (EVERYONE is a winner) and everyone gets a great trophy. Parents and guests must be careful how they cheer for their child because it isn’t fair if one child gets more cheers than another. This is a league for kids ages 5 to 18.
Entitlement!

Such programs teach kids that they are “entitled” to win regardless of their efforts and that they are all “gifted” regardless of the skills they have actually developed. This type of program is a prime example of what is wrong with our younger generation in the US. This reminds me of the “church of nice” mindset that is so common within the Catholic Church today. You know, everyone will go to Heaven because they are entitled to since they are all nice.

Good works applies to God’s salvation and to life. If one does not work at living a Christian life by following the dogmatic teachings of the Catholic Church they cannot expect to go to Heaven. If one does not work at earning their livelihood then why should they expect to receive anything?

Life has a way of kicking people in the mud. I pray those kids know how to pick themselves up out of the mud.

Ran
 
As someone who has a rather dark view of sports I’d have to say losing, no matter how badly does not equal bullying unless the winners were taunting the losers during the game, apparently not the case here.
I’d like to know who put these two teams in the same league and don’t they have a “mercy rule”?
A co-worker is an assistant coach, his team won a game 14-0. He said he felt awful for the other kids but the mercy rule didn’t kick in until the fifth inning. He put in the second string and they came to life and the other team (probably already depressed) couldn’t stop them from scoring either.
 
Here in the Houston area, there is an organization called Fun, Fair, Positive Soccer (FFPS). It is a soccer league that doesn’t keep score, doesn’t believe in winners or losers (EVERYONE is a winner) and everyone gets a great trophy. Parents and guests must be careful how they cheer for their child because it isn’t fair if one child gets more cheers than another. This is a league for kids ages 5 to 18.

How much do you want to bet that this parent has had their child in a similar league.

I really feel for that poor kid.

Peace

Tim
Thanks for pointing out what’s wrong with America. As others have said, these kids are going to grow up with an entitlement mentality.

As far as the story in the OP, man up, play some defense and stop the other team from scoring.
 
Running the clock is a “mercy”. Playing third string is merciful. It sounds like the Aledo coach did everything to stop the slaughter short of forfeiting the game which would be nonsensical.

As far as “bullying”, I believe it’s real, but I also think that some instances that are called bullying are not truly. Not liking someone and not having anything to say to them is not bullying.
 
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