The first point is: you must be in contact with a strong support group. None of us are lone rangers (so as to speak).
Secondly be aware of the gift you feel coming on. Satin will also camouflage gifts to look what they are not.
Be weary of he who comes dressed as the lamb but is the wolf in disguise.
DO NOT be afraid to speak to your priest.
Pray for the gift of discernment would be a first.
remember that “fear of the Lord if the first sign of wisdom”
DO read the books you can get hold of, and in the thread “gifts of the Holy Spirit” and “living with the Holy Spirit in our lives” both in this forum.
There is ample Catholic information to sustain yor need at present.
If yo have a printer cut and past so you can look over the information.
Keep asking questions here. Don’t forget KEEP ON praying, and…Self denial and fasting keep our mind on the process of allowing the Holy Spirit in, since He is a gentle man and will not come unless asked.
You are on my prayer chain.
God bless