The Burning Question

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Has anyone else noticed how badly those who write our laws despise common-sense solutions and plain speaking in the English language? Any solution to a common problem that makes common sense to the common citizen is dismissed as being “simplistic”, argued about, mulled over, cussed and discussed until it makes no sense to anybody. Then it is scheduled for a vote. The hottest problem in American life today is, thanks to the constant insistence of the “religious right”, that of abortion. There is no longer any middle ground and no attempt to find a solution other than outright revocation of Roe v. Wade or “abortion on demand”. It seems that this artificial division has been fostered by the two major parties in order to keep their “bases” in line when they enter the voting booth. However, even the pro-choice group, NARAL, states that they want to keep abortion “safe, legal, and rare.” I would go one step further and state that the medical procedure should be safe, legal, and unnecessary.

I suggest that a little common sense and a broadening of understanding, together with a Christian attitude of caring for the problem rather than condemning the victim would be highly appropriate. I, too, am revulsed by the prospect of a woman who is carrying a child in the second or third month of development finding it necessary to destroy that life. But I am even more distressed when that “woman” is little more than a child, with no education, no vocational training, and totally un-equipped to parent that child, whether or not she marries the ignorant and over-sexed little boy who is responsible for her condition. The purists preach abstinence only, but purists are not known to be practical. The pragmatist understands that Mother Nature is intent on propagating the species and does not care about the circumstances of the prospective parents. If we hope to improve the standards of living in the nation, put an end to childhood hunger, and develop a more intelligent, better educated citizenry, our best plan would be to make abortion not only undesireable but unnecessary.

There is much talk about adoption as the solution to unwanted pregnancies, but that is also only by the purists. The fact is that blonde, blue-eyed babies are in demand but the supply is inadequate. Unfortunately, most unwanted pregnancies occur among the poor, that is, largely among the non-white or mixed-blood populace and those who want to adopt do not find these children to be acceptable and turn to other nations to find adoptees. Many children have been brought from places like Rumania in order to fill the demand while native-born American children are refused because of race or color. Why were there blonde, blue-eyed orphans in Rumania, sick and unloved, lying in cribs, isolated, neglected, and unwanted by anybody? Because Rumania had been governed by a despot who outlawed all forms of birth control in an effort to increase the population! As the result, that nation found itself awash in unwanted, abandoned babies and had to establish those miserable orphanages to house them. They also experienced an huge increase in crime as these children grew to maturity with no concept of love and no training in the difference between right and wrong. We could learn from that experience.

Would it not be better to institute a system of protection and assistance for women who find themselves in this untenable position? I can hear the right-wing screams about “welfare queens” but the positives would out-weigh the negatives if it were done properly. A woman, (and that definition does include any girl old enough to bear children) who, despite adequate training in birth control, (including the desirability of abstinence), should find herself in this predicament, there should be a procedure to protect that incipient human being should the pregnancy be allowed to run its course. If the young lady in question does not yet have a high school diploma, she should be subsidized by medical care and educational assistance to stay in school until she achieves that goal as well as whatever training is appropriate to prepare to support and care for that child. It might also be appropriate to provide a plan for the unwitting father to complete his education and train him to work at a job sufficient to permit him to contribute to the support, the life, and the education of this infant, whether or not he ever marries the mother. This will require a great deal of public education to rid ourselves of all the old taboos against “sin” and the ostracism that exists against those who have children out of wedlock.

Read the rest of the article here:
scoop.co.nz/stories/print.html?path=HL0510/S00201.htm
 
Karin:

Since you are not the author of your post, you should say so at the beginning of the post, rather than copy a link at the end (the link being the article you pasted into the thread without proper reference). This way, readers will understand that you are not the original author of the material that follows.

I believe that some form of the solution that this author described is already in place in our country, albeit in a flawed way. Pregnant teenagers can stay in school, programs are in place to help them care for their children, they get medical care, food stamps and subsidized housing. And to my knowledge, the fathers just march along the path that they’re on, because it doesn’t affect most teen fathers like it does their babies’ mothers. States now have programs in place that make fathers more accountable for the support and upbringing of their children. There are so many opportunities for those who are willing to look for answers.

But I recognize that the problem of the poor is far more complex than the scope of government programs can address. Poor people in this country have an array of problems that make it very challenging to move forward in life. I can’t begin to imagine what those factors would “feel” like, but I do feel that the oppression must be immense as it appears to be so powerful in a very damaging way. Programs can only offer people assistance, but it’s up to the individual to make a change in life. We’ve seen government programs fall short time and time again, and faith-based efforts are limited because everyone has their own life to live, their own families to care for, etc. I think the downfall for the poor has been the birth control-led rise in extra marital fornication. This has undercut the tradition family, and family (where the father is married to the mother) is usually a good thing all the way around.

Finally, this quote appears to have a Christian bashing element to it, so tell us, are you in favor of this author’s point of view or against it? Do you believe this author is pro-life or pro-abortion?
 
There were a lot of assumptions made in that article. Many of those assumptions were false. In particular, the assertions as to why so many children were in orphanages in Rumania is debatable.

Having worked in the welfare system for 18 years I find the simplistic approach to the ‘problem’ of unplanned pregnancies terribly naive and out of date. My goodness, in what decade was the research for this article done?

It is so badly written, and poorly presented it really doesn’t even bare comment.
 
The purists preach abstinence only, but purists are not known to be practical. The pragmatist understands that Mother Nature is intent on propagating the species and does not care about the circumstances of the prospective parents.
What the heck!? We aren’t animals. There is nature, and then there is self control. We have a will and we can decide.
If we hope to improve the standards of living in the nation, put an end to childhood hunger, and develop a more intelligent, better educated citizenry, our best plan would be to make abortion not only undesireable but unnecessary.
Killing of unborn babies is never necessary…
A woman, (and that definition does include any girl old enough to bear children) who, despite adequate training in birth control, (including the desirability of abstinence), should find herself in this predicament, there should be a procedure to protect that incipient human being should the pregnancy be allowed to run its course.
Did you know that the more you promote birth control, the higher the promiscuity, and the more abortions occur. There are studies that prove this, but you only need common sense to figure it out. If my mom would have told me abstinence was the best, but would have given me contraceptives “just in case” I doubt I would have made it to my wedding day a virgin. Abstinence is the only one that works 100% (and that is morally ok, anyways).
This will require a great deal of public education to rid ourselves of all the old taboos against “sin” and the ostracism that exists against those who have children out of wedlock.
Sin is sin, taboo or not, should we start acting like its not a sin? I agree we can’t ostracize anyone for having children out of wedlock, we are all sinners, but we cannot say it is not a sin just to make them feel better. Love the sinner not the sin. Hate the sin not the sinner.

This writer sounds pretty darn ignorant if you ask me.
 
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