I always refer to Mother Mary as the Divine Mother. I rely on the Rosary and the Divine Mother quite a bit. Our local Church has a steeple before her statue. Always makes me cry when I read this line from John:
John 19:25-29 New King James Version (NKJV)
Behold Your Mother
25 Now there stood by the cross of Jesus His mother, and His mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. 26 When Jesus therefore saw His mother, and the disciple whom He loved standing by, He said to His mother, “Woman, behold your son!” 27 Then He said to the disciple, “Behold your mother!” And from that hour that disciple took her to his own home.
So, I’m sorry if it brings offense to you. But for me it’s standard. In prayer I go directly to God or to Mother Mary. It’s a regional difference in America. Again, I live in a diverse Blue State where in Churches it is common to see her image. So, please don’t shame me. I wasn’t raised in a house of shame.
Again, I gave up porn at 27 now I’m 38. Live a celibate life attend Mass weekly, pray the Rosary and Divine Office. I’m planning to up my contributions by working for Catholic Charities. So, just consider it a regional difference; while there is an Evangelical community where I live I find they are loving and open accepting people. We are not in the Bible Belt.
So, yah, just a regional difference. You may live surrounded by more Evangelicals who are critical of the Church. I’ve never encountered them but only online. The only places I’ve lived are California, Manhattan, and London. So, I don’t know what your experience is what part of America you come from but I really feel good about Mother Mary.