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He wasn’t my local bishop, and it wasn’t exactly the bedtime rosary.(To use a very rough analogy: it would be like a local neighborhood hosting a get-together party. It’s not like the president or the local mayor or governor has any direct say or would say anything about what goes on in the party. I mean, when was the last time your local bishop gave you any directive or ruling for your bedtime family rosary?)
But just a week and three days ago, I did get a letter from my priest because his bishop was coming to a little get together. We tend to pray our rosaries around 7:00PM, just a few hours before the kids go to bed. But – In that letter my new (and well intentioned priest) told me that rosaries are supposed to be group prayers, and they should have meditations which stick to information in printed sources. ( He obviously doesn’t know me well, yet, and I think he was probably panicking when he thought the bishop might overhear my meditations. )
You see, I do a scriptural rosary, and the priest apparently didn’t realize that I followed the format from Pope John Paul II; and that the “meditations” I give are generally excerpts from our last three pope’s homilies and direct quotes from bibles with imprimaturs, eg: Quotes from pope’s mediations during rosaries they prayed at various times of the year and which were published in a booklet. Notably, one of the two booklets I read from the week before I got the lecture was “Praying the Rosary with Pope Francis.” Not exactly heretical matierial… but I think what triggered the backlash was that I read/paraphrased three sentences from one of Pope John Paul’s homilies on Mary being a woman who didn’t respond back to the angel Gabriel instantly, but rather “pondered these things in her heart.” The feast day was the annunciation, so I thought PJP II’s words were appropriate.
None the less, my local priest who had read the meditations before I even said them; (I emailed him a paraphrase/condensation before hand) was fine with them that week, but the following week when the bishop was about to come he suddenly wrote me a lecture on how the rosary was supposed to be done.
So, I’m afraid your analogy hits a little too close to home.
The rosary is supposed to be a layman’s prayer; it’s not supposed to be “liturgy.”
I mean, the rosary was originally given as a way for a layman who could not do the “liturgy of the hours” or “the divine office” (eastern name, same prayers); It encouraged a normal person to meditate on all 150 psalms in a very condensed/abbreviated fashion. (That’s why there were originally 10 beads x 5 mysteries/set x 3 sets of hail Marys, One for each psalm… The rosary wasn’t intended as a liturgy, but something for the common person to do at prayer meetings, or home, or wherever they had a few minutes to pray. )
People pray the Rosary at different times, whether before bed, when they get up, or just before mass or Holy Mysteries. And it’s not like there is an absolute format one must follow for the meditations. Even regarding the liturgy itself: St. Paul didn’t say, that people in church had to pray only words someone had said before them, or that everyone must follow a script; but St. Paul did demand that any words of encouragement, words of prophecy, or inspirational hymns ought to be done in an orderly fashion. We ought not interrupt each other.
Yet, St. Pauls’ wisdom did not occur to the priest when his bishop was about to descend. I eventually told the parish priest that I simply didn’t want to lead any of the rosary. It was too much stress.
In a rough analogy, The leaders of the synagogues in Jesus’ times would also have had similar pressures applied to them. They may not have been “formal” or “hierarchical decrees”; but none the less, a person can be destroyed and brought low through a social pecking order almost as effectively as through juridical decrees, or governmental interventions, or police actions. Fear of public humiliation or ticking off a superior is a powerful motivator.